How Can I Help My Unemployed Boyfriend?
August 10, 2018
Direct, to the point, no messing around is the best way to approach an unemployed mate. But there’s more…
Is he Into Me or Not?
August 3, 2018
A guy, even when uninterested, sometimes fires back a quick answer to the cute girl who emailed just to get another little taste of kindness, indulgence, or thoughtfulness. So how can you tell if he’s interested?…
Why Don’t Men Approach Me?
July 26, 2018
Even if you’re giving off steamy come-hither signals just short of setting your blouse on fire, that cutie the next aisle over may still hesitate. Learn why…
Why Am I Attracted to Married Men?
July 20, 2018
Are you independent? Do you love autonomy? Married guys have limited availability, leaving you free as a birdie to travel, focus on your career, hang out with girlfriends, see other men, go to yoga class, shop, and generally not be bothered by the minutia of coupledom.
Should I Try to Reconcile with My Ex-Boyfriend?
July 6, 2018
There’s no such thing as “the one,” but if you’re determined, you can find the man who knows a good thing when he sees it and is willing to enjoy the fun times and weather the bad.
How Do I Stop My Husband From Interrupting?
June 29, 2018
When a partner breaks our focus or blocks the flow of our transition between tasks it’s like getting pulled into another world – their world.
How do I Learn to Hold My Boyfriend to a Realistic Standard?
June 22, 2018
A new love’s charm has us run straight at our target with our eyes wide shut. When the newness wears off, there are things we just can’t tolerate.
Why Do Guys Pull Away or Say, “I Don’t Want to Hurt You”?
June 15, 2018
Braking and waffling, ugh. So. Many. People. Do. This! And it’s maddening. Watch very closely for…
My Boyfriend Makes Me Feel Bad When He Looks at Women & Porn
June 8, 2018
If a guy looking at other women and porn are deal-breakers for you, you could definitely find a new boyfriend who doesn’t do either of those things. But you are not going to change your guy.
I Like a Slut and I Don’t Know What to Do
June 1, 2018
When someone is a solid ten in hotness on a scale of one to ten, it may seem like a full-speed-ahead good sign, but it’s actually the opposite.
Is It Too Late to Explore My Sexuality & Lifestyle Choices?
May 11, 2018
There are so many more options available for relationship models these days. But is there an age cut-off? If you carry an AARP card, does that mean you can’t explore the adventure and have a curiosity for what might be new to you?
My Boyfriend Has Friendships with Other Women, Help!
May 4, 2018
There’s no need to kill the love in relationships! Loving more than one person doesn’t diminish the amount of love we have to give. Otherwise, people could never have more than one child, right? But it is quite a different thing if past relationships are stealing time away from a current relationship.
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