Porn, Fantasy, and Sex Workers
May 10, 2019
Hey Wendy, Your column, Why Does My Husband Watch Porn, has raised a few more questions about men and porn use. I agree that many men have normal porn use.
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Biting your tongue is not a relationship solution when you’re being mistreated. Signals, alerts, and boundaries are the way to go.
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Is this really about the flowers? Or is this about having a boyfriend who’s reluctant to do things for you that will make you happy?
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How Do I Deal with His Erectile Dysfunction (ED)?
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What if My Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Oral Sex?
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