Can I Invite My Friend & Not Her Boyfriend?
October 25, 2017
If you want to be a good friend, stick close to her, and if the two of them fall apart, you can gently assist her in taking off her rose-colored glasses.
How Do I Get A Commitment After Sex?
October 20, 2017
Hey Dianna, So far this sounds promising, congratulations! This exclusivity thing is not an uncommon problem; it plagues women from around the globe. I’d say this: If you want him
Where Are All the Single Guys Over 50?
October 17, 2017
Hey Cindy, I will absolutely give you hope…if you’re willing to shake things up a bit. Because you’ve already learned an important lesson: You aren’t finding men where you’ve been
Why Won’t She Take a Complement?
October 16, 2017
Hey Kristen, Easy. The next time you say, “That top looks amazing on you” and she says, “No it doesn’t,” or you say, “You’re so smart!” and she says, “No
I Make More Than My Husband, Does That Matter?
October 13, 2017
If you have different priorities around money, I recommend you keep your accounts separate but…
Do I Need to Lose Weight to Date?
October 12, 2017
Ever wondered if you needed to lose weight or change aspect about yourself before you were ready to date? Maybe there’s a good reason to date as you are.
Is it Love if There Isn’t a Spark?
October 11, 2017
Have you ever been to a Fourth of July fireworks show that never ends? Yeah, me neither.
What Does “I Can’t Give You What You Need” Mean?
October 10, 2017
I would say, “Hey. So what is it that you think I want?” Then I’d listen. I’d clarify. Most of all, I…
How Do I Handle an Unsatisfying Sex Life?
October 10, 2017
When you have an unsatisfying sex life do you stay or do you go? It’s not simple. And when BDSM calls to you, it’s a call that usually can’t be ignored.
How Can I Get Her Back?
October 9, 2017
After going on 121 first dates, I cracked the code for how to find your true love…
How Do I Break Up with a Friend with Benefits?
October 6, 2017
Wondering what the relationship rules are for a break-up with a friend with benefits? Do you have a sit-down? Dodge it? Text? Ghost? (No ghosting!) Read on!
When Is the Right Time to Tell Him About My Bipolar Disorder?
October 5, 2017
When disclosing ANYTHING, come armed with useful, trusted internet links so your person doesn’t run off and Google and get wildly inaccurate information—you know, like the kind the Internet tends to provide.
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