Are you independent? Do you love autonomy? Married guys have limited availability, leaving you free as a birdie to travel, focus on your career, hang out with girlfriends, see other men, go to yoga class, shop, and generally not be bothered by the minutia of coupledom.
There’s no such thing as “the one,” but if you’re determined, you can find the man who knows a good thing when he sees it and is willing to enjoy the fun times and weather the bad.
When a partner breaks our focus or blocks the flow of our transition between tasks it’s like getting pulled into another world – their world.
A new love’s charm has us run straight at our target with our eyes wide shut. When the newness wears off, there are things we just can’t tolerate.
Braking and waffling, ugh. So. Many. People. Do. This! And it’s maddening. Watch very closely for…
If a guy looking at other women and porn are deal-breakers for you, you could definitely find a new boyfriend who doesn’t do either of those things. But you are not going to change your guy.
When someone is a solid ten in hotness on a scale of one to ten, it may seem like a full-speed-ahead good sign, but it’s actually the opposite.
There are so many more options available for relationship models these days. But is there an age cut-off? If you carry an AARP card, does that mean you can’t explore the adventure and have a curiosity for what might be new to you?
There’s no need to kill the love in relationships! Loving more than one person doesn’t diminish the amount of love we have to give. Otherwise, people could never have more than one child, right? But it is quite a different thing if past relationships are stealing time away from a current relationship.
The misconception that men who want anal play must be on the gay spectrum is a common one. But anal play and being sexually attracted to other guys are not necessarily linked. Fun fact: There are gay men who don’t like anal play at all.
Over-connecting via phone and email with strangers who then disappear is one of the fastest ways daters are driven off of dating sites. Find out how to avoid this from happening to you.
Men get burned out buying a string of dinners for strangers who feel entitled to it, act ungrateful, and then never want to see him again. Women feel diminished, disrespected, and not special when a guy doesn’t treat. It’s a conundrum.
“This was without a doubt, life-changing. I had no idea that my marriage could be this intimate, fun and safe by applying what I learned. It’s been three months now, and our marriage is unrecognizable in the best ways possible. I can’t thank you enough, Wendy.”
Audrey H. – San Francisco, California
“Why weren’t we taught this in school??? This is right on and has already transformed my relationship with my boyfriend. It feels magical and visceral. Thank you!”
Kim A. – Sedona, Arizona
“Thank you, Wendy, for your generous insight and compassionate understanding of men. I joined your workshop with my mother. We are desperately trying to break eight generations of bad relationship dynamics with the men in our family. I’m sure that we are on a different path and look forward to a bright future being happy and healthy in our relationships with all men in our lives. All my love.” Hailey B. – Seattle, Washington
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