How Do I Keep a Married Man Away from Me?
April 5, 2019
Wouldn’t it be great if we knew we could simply say “no” without pushback or retaliation? We wouldn’t feel so much pressure to not be displeasing.
How Do I Handle Physical Abuse & Snarky Comments in Relationships
March 29, 2019
Can you tell if your person may not have the emotional intelligence to be in a mature relationship? Read on…
How Do I Deal with His Erectile Dysfunction (ED)?
March 22, 2019
Three things a partner can do to help with erectile dysfunction (ED) is 1) internalize “it’s not personal” 2) expand the repertoire 3) lean into sensuality. Easier said than done, right? Read on to learn more on how to do all three with grace.
I Feel Trapped & Unhappy in My Marriage – Should I Leave?
March 15, 2019
Long-term marriage never is what we imagine it to be. But how can you tell when it’s time to renegotiate things, open up, or leave? If you need help making this life-changing decision, read on.
Am I Being Too Picky?
March 8, 2019
There’s nothing wrong with being picky as long as you like being single. If you have a standard of beauty you expect out of a mate, pick someone who is willing to maintain that level of aesthetic appearance.
4 Steps to Fixing a Mistake in Your Marriage
March 1, 2019
Repairing mistakes and making apologies in any relationship can be hard, especially when there’s a lot at stake. Read this step-by-step guide on how to clean up a mess.
What if My Boyfriend Doesn’t Like Oral Sex?
February 22, 2019
Using your words to request sex acts can be tricky if you feel like your partner is avoiding them on purpose. So how do you share your desires? Read on…
How Do I Stop My Husband from Yelling?
February 15, 2019
There’s a pretty big difference between telling your partner something you need and setting a boundary over what’s not acceptable. Want to know the difference? Read more…
How to Date a Short Guy
February 8, 2019
There probably is a real number where yeah, height is a deal-breaker for you. That’s your prerogative; it’s fine to own that. However, this is said with some reluctance… Think of Peter Dinklage’s crash-worthiness. There’s always room for exceptions.
My Boyfriend Won’t Have Sex with Me
February 1, 2019
Conversations about tough things are required in any relationship worth having. So how do you handle a sexless relationship when one of you won’t talk?
How Long Should I Wait to Hook Up After an LTR?
January 25, 2019
To be respectful to an ex, the grace period for waiting before having casual hookups is…
A Letter to the Boyfriend Who Won’t Set Boundaries with a Female Friend
January 17, 2019
Is feeding off the energy generated by a friend’s possessive antics worth the cost of a good relationship? Read more…
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