My Boyfriend Won’t Have Sex with Me
February 1, 2019
Conversations about tough things are required in any relationship worth having. So how do you handle a sexless relationship when one of you won’t talk?
How Long Should I Wait to Hook Up After an LTR?
January 25, 2019
To be respectful to an ex, the grace period for waiting before having casual hookups is…
A Letter to the Boyfriend Who Won’t Set Boundaries with a Female Friend
January 17, 2019
Is feeding off the energy generated by a friend’s possessive antics worth the cost of a good relationship? Read more…
Your Boyfriend’s Sex Tape is None of Your Business
January 11, 2019
Are we entitled to our private sexual thoughts, strolls down memory lane, histories and fantasies when we’re coupled? Or is that cheating? Do we shred the sex tape or keep that memento? Read more…
How Do I Deal with My New Boyfriend’s Children?
December 21, 2018
Standing by your boyfriend while trying to win over his adult children is tricky anytime, but when your boyfriend is a widower, there’s more to consider…
How Do I Handle Holiday Drama with My Husband & Family
December 14, 2018
“Be selfish — screw everyone else!” is not the advice here. Taking care of you is one of the most generous things you could do all year.
What’s the Story About Chemistry, Again?
December 7, 2018
It’s difficult to keep the faith that love will happen for you—especially when you keep meeting Mr. Not Quite My Man over and over again.
Why Can’t I Get Past Date #1?
November 23, 2018
Sometimes when we don’t get the second date, it’s because of the cotton candy phenomenon: all fluff and no substance. Uncover the missing ingredient to sprinkle in every date every time to keep them coming back.
Drinking & Dating
November 16, 2018
Compatibility goes far beyond things like he’s cute, fun, and good in bed (although those things are not to be dismissed).
How Do I Meet Mr. Right as a Single Mom?
November 9, 2018
The needs of minor children take first priority. Over everything. Full stop. The end. Not even willing to entertain a tiny little “but what if?” And then there’s dating…
Dating While Rich & Successful: A Steve Jobs or A Stedman?
November 1, 2018
Is it realistic to ask for someone with equal net worth or education when both of yours are exceedingly high? Sure. But let’s look at what’s actually important to consider…
Why Are Online Daters Not Efforting?
October 25, 2018
It’s not too much to ask of dates, to be able to string a couple of well-crafted sentences together and bring a little curiosity to the conversation.
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