Do You Think I’m Too Picky?
December 6, 2019
My friend tried to set me up, and when I didn’t like him she said I needed to broaden my options.
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I’m Polyamorous. Do I Have to Meet His Parents?
November 27, 2019
I’ve been in a polyamorous relationship with a wonderful man for the last three and a half years…
My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want to Travel, Deal-Breaker?
November 22, 2019
I love to travel, it’s sort of my thing. I’ve traveled to many places both solo and with friends. And I’ve been wanting to travel with a significant other for a long time…
How Do I Talk to My Wife About Intimacy?
November 15, 2019
The physical intimacy between my wife and I has become nonexistent. I’m struggling with how to talk to her about it…
My Boyfriend Needs Me to Go Everywhere with Him, HELP!
November 8, 2019
My boyfriend asked me to go out to dinner with his best friend and the best friend’s wife the other night. I declined because I had a hectic week. He said I should go and that we come as a package.
How Do I Have a Conversation About Sex with My New Guy
October 31, 2019
I mentioned to my date that I’d never spent a night naked next to man without him pressuring me to have sex. He didn’t want to talk about it right then. Now what?
How Do I Talk to My Boyfriend About Cohabitating?
October 18, 2019
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 18 months. He has his place and I have mine. We both have strong feelings for each and other, and I would like to know at what time do I ask about cohabitating?
My Family Doesn’t Approve of My Boyfriend, Help!
October 11, 2019
For the past few months, I have been dating a guy who has a brother who is dating my cousin (4 years strong).
Can Friends-with-Benefits Be Bad for You?
October 4, 2019
I have a friend with benefits that I see occasionally, but I always end up feeling very depressed after seeing him. The depression is fairly intense and lasts at least a day.
Should I Date the Newly Divorced Guy?
September 27, 2019
I have a deal-breaker that I won’t date men fresh out of a marriage or long-term relationship. However, I know several women who found their guy just this way! I believe you did as well?
Should I Contact a Guy from My Past?
September 13, 2019
Wondering about sending a text to connect with an old friend who might be available for dating now.
How Do I Handle Insecurities Over My Boyfriend’s Friendships with Other Women?
August 29, 2019
I trust that nothing physical has happened between them, but something in my gut is telling me that there are some unresolved feelings between them. Some of her actions actually are red flags to me.
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