How Do I Stop Him from Interrupting?
March 13, 2020
My boyfriend is continuously interrupting and that’s a deal breaker unless he figured out how to tone it down.
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Why is it Hard to Commit?
March 6, 2020
I’m having a hard time committing to making a permanent living relationship with my boyfriend. I wonder, is he on the rebound?
Should I Date Someone Who Identifies as Asexual?
February 27, 2020
Is it wrong of me to turn down a guy who’s asexual, and not want to date him? He already knows that I am attracted to him…
Why I Say “Yes” to a Same-Day Date
February 20, 2020
I don’t want to accept a date for the same day – I feel like that means he isn’t respecting my time and he’ll think that he can be lazy. I don’t think that’s how he’ll come to appreciate me.
How Do I Deal with My Husband and a Threatening Metamour
February 14, 2020
My husband’s girlfriend told him she can’t be secondary in his life and she wants him to leave me and our kids to be with her and her kids.
How Can I Date Him If I Have a Lot of Chemistry with Him?
February 6, 2020
How do I remain planted firmly on Mother Earth so I can see who this guy is and how he is showing up for me? Chemistry is high.
How Do I Get My Husband to Remember Valentine’s Day?
January 31, 2020
My husband always messes up Valentine’s Day. He’s never gotten it right in the seven years we’ve been together. I want him to nail it.
I Want More from My Boyfriend
January 24, 2020
When I talk to my boyfriend about who or what’s stressing me out, he’ll say things like, “that sucks,” or “I know you’re upset” – it’s not enough.
My Ex Slept with a Tinder Date Hours After We Broke Up. Help!
January 17, 2020
Now that I’m back in the dating world I feel like I need to be through with him, but I just can’t. It feels like we’re in a competition to get into a new relationship.
Is it Wrong for Me to Stay in the Closet?
January 10, 2020
I don’t really feel like coming out to my friends and family because I know it would be awkward. I don’t intentionally hide my sexuality. If anyone asked, I wouldn’t deny it.
Should I Buy My New Boyfriend a Christmas Gift?
December 20, 2019
Do I buy my new guy a gift? He’s been asking me what I would like too.
Why is Online Dating Not Working?
December 13, 2019
I get hundreds of messages, but the majority of these men (supposedly also looking for the same thing) pursue me and are really excited about me, etc. we exchange #’s, maybe have a conversation, then nothing!
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