Why Do Guys Pull Away or Say, “I Don’t Want to Hurt You”?
June 15, 2018
Braking and waffling, ugh. So. Many. People. Do. This! And it’s maddening. Watch very closely for…
My Boyfriend Makes Me Feel Bad When He Looks at Women & Porn
June 8, 2018
If a guy looking at other women and porn are deal-breakers for you, you could definitely find a new boyfriend who doesn’t do either of those things. But you are not going to change your guy.
I Like a Slut and I Don’t Know What to Do
June 1, 2018
When someone is a solid ten in hotness on a scale of one to ten, it may seem like a full-speed-ahead good sign, but it’s actually the opposite.
Is It Too Late to Explore My Sexuality & Lifestyle Choices?
May 11, 2018
There are so many more options available for relationship models these days. But is there an age cut-off? If you carry an AARP card, does that mean you can’t explore the adventure and have a curiosity for what might be new to you?
My Boyfriend Has Friendships with Other Women, Help!
May 4, 2018
There’s no need to kill the love in relationships! Loving more than one person doesn’t diminish the amount of love we have to give. Otherwise, people could never have more than one child, right? But it is quite a different thing if past relationships are stealing time away from a current relationship.
Is a Guy Gay If He Wants Anal Play?
April 26, 2018
The misconception that men who want anal play must be on the gay spectrum is a common one. But anal play and being sexually attracted to other guys are not necessarily linked. Fun fact: There are gay men who don’t like anal play at all.
Why Do Men Disappear Before We Even Meet?
April 19, 2018
Over-connecting via phone and email with strangers who then disappear is one of the fastest ways daters are driven off of dating sites. Find out how to avoid this from happening to you.
What’s the Etiquette For Paying For Dates?
April 13, 2018
Men get burned out buying a string of dinners for strangers who feel entitled to it, act ungrateful, and then never want to see him again. Women feel diminished, disrespected, and not special when a guy doesn’t treat. It’s a conundrum.
My Boyfriend Still Lives with His Ex
April 6, 2018
When we date someone new, we often forget to look at the whole package. Mostly we just focus on him and his potential. We forgot to consider all sorts of complicated details, from minor children to the ex.
My Boyfriend Looks at Other Women, Help!
March 29, 2018
Because we care for someone, we cross our fingers and hope we can trust them for everything that matters to us, including not breaking our hearts.
How Do I Stop Attracting Jerks?
March 23, 2018
Finding good, decent, respectful guys out there is easier than you might think — I mean there are gads of them. But you have to be in the right place both physically and energetically.
Do I Have To Have The “We’re Dating Exclusively” Conversation Yet?
March 16, 2018
Dating casually or dating for a relationship seems to be the only two options today. Maybe there’s another choice. Maybe “dating exclusively” doesn’t have to be on the table by date #3.
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