What Mixed Signals Really Mean
September 18, 2020
A woman I want to be in a relationship with is showing me a bit of interest but is also giving me mixed signals, and sometimes she’s aloof. What do I do with that?
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“You’re Mine for Life” – Romantic or Selfish?
September 4, 2020
My husband wants me to promise that if he dies before me, I won’t go find someone else to love.
So, Your Partner Checks Out Attractive Strangers – Here’s What to Do…
August 27, 2020
My boyfriend checks out other women. To what extent is it okay for people in relationships to look at other people they might find attractive? And at what point is it not okay anymore? And how do I fix this?
How to Move Dating from the Phone to the Real Word in Covid Times
August 21, 2020
I’m starting to bond over the phone with a guy. But I don’t know how to address the issues and because of Covid it’s obviously a weird time to meet in person. Help!
My Boyfriend Calls Me “Spoiled.” Is That a Red Flag?
August 14, 2020
My boyfriend called me spoiled when I asked if he’d grab a bag out of the car for me. I would let it go, but he brought it up twice!
I Want to Fall in Love AND I Want to be Alone. Is That Weird?
August 7, 2020
Part of me wants to find my soulmate, get married, have kids, and be with them for the rest of my life. Another part of me wants to isolate and focus on my own passions.
I Can’t Stop Comparing Myself to My Boyfriend’s Ex – Help!
July 24, 2020
They were together for six years. They come from a small town where they were treated like a celebrity couple. I see old photos online where it seems like hundreds of people were rooting for them.
3 Ways to Support Your Partner Through Job Loss
July 17, 2020
He landed a “dream job” in his field, and now two years in, his direct manager has become unbearable.
How to Date After Divorce
July 3, 2020
I’m getting divorced after 20+ years of marriage. We have three grown kids. I just found out he was cheating on me, and now he’s moving in with her. They’ve been together nine months.
Dating While Pregnant, It’s a Thing
June 25, 2020
I’m 34, single, and three and a half months pregnant. I’m ready for the next chapter of my life to start, and I was thinking of joining a dating site.
How Much Control Should My Boyfriend Have Over My Life?
June 19, 2020
My boyfriend doesn’t like witchcraft and says it’s against his religion. He doesn’t want anything to do with it, and he won’t let me read a book about it.
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June 12, 2020
With all that’s happening around race, my husband has been sharing his opinions and they are racist and degrading.
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