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When Another Woman Wants to Usurp Your Guy

I have a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. He happens to have an annoying female friend living in his home and taking care of his daughter when he’s at work-related events. From what he’s said, I believe she has feelings for him.

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Are You a Serial Ghoster?

What if I’m the serial ghoster? I know ghosting is not fair to anyone, but I don’t know what I should do to prevent it. Once I lose interest or I see red flags I stop responding. Help, please! 

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