Why Being Unhappy F*cks Up Your Relationships
January 28, 2021
Happiness is something that we all look for, hope for, or are envious of in others. But a lucky few of us understand that happiness is an inside job.
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When Children Challenge Love - Widower Edition
January 14, 2021
His kids call me “mistress, the bitch, the devil, the gold digger, the person ruining the family,” and still I have been supportive of him and his family. What do I do next?
How to Cultivate Self-Confidence and Trust in a New Relationship
January 1, 2021
I often find myself wanting to be reassured of his feelings, even though he is very open about how much he likes me.
Love, Actually, Does Not Conquer All
December 25, 2020
My boyfriend has a habit of pushing me away when he is in a dark place. Should I stay?
Handsome, Talented, & Broke
December 18, 2020
I thought being financially secure was one of my dating “must-have” requirements. Now I’m not sure…
5 Dating Lessons to Take with You on Your Way Out
December 10, 2020
Sometimes we meet our person right away, and other times we meet people who are here to teach us life lessons.
#1 Most Important Must-Have in a Partner
December 3, 2020
I’m dating a great guy who’s curious, self-aware, and is eager to learn me.
I have a secret…
When Another Woman Wants to Usurp Your Guy
November 27, 2020
I have a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. He happens to have an annoying female friend living in his home and taking care of his daughter when he’s at work-related events. From what he’s said, I believe she has feelings for him.
How to Roll Out Your Truth & Your History When Dating
November 20, 2020
When I like someone new, I’m not sure how to tell him I have had breast cancer.
Are You a Serial Ghoster?
November 6, 2020
What if I’m the serial ghoster? I know ghosting is not fair to anyone, but I don’t know what I should do to prevent it. Once I lose interest or I see red flags I stop responding. Help, please!
How to Overcome Jealousy & Controlling Tendencies
October 8, 2020
When I have a boyfriend, I come across as possessive and a little controlling, and I don’t know how to navigate this.
Why Herpes Is So Stigmatized & Silenced
September 25, 2020
So, I met the man of my dreams, and he’s just disclosed that he has herpes.
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