My husband and I broke up two months ago and the split was ugly. A week ago he called me and said he wanted to try again. I was very excited because I missed him so much even though my friends thought he treated me like crap.
During our reconciliation, he told me he hadn’t kissed another woman while we were apart.
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for nine months. Politics seem to be our biggest issue. He’s a republican and I’m a democrat. I recently attended the Women’s March with some friends and he’s livid. My sign supported Planned Parenthood, and since he’s a staunch pro-life person, he feels I want to kill babies. He also thinks I’m too vocal about my beliefs.
Do I take a leap of faith and believe everything by taking what he says at face value as I tend to do? He asked me last night if I was chatting with anyone else, which I thought was odd.
I’m a person who puts a high value on being on time. I’m not perfect but I am generally on time if not a bit early. I’m also a planner. My calendar is often booked a couple of weeks out and my life is highly scheduled.
He’s in the more-than-an-hour-late camp, and I’ve experienced that on multiple occasions.
As adults, we get to decide how we spend our time and with whom we spend it with. “The more the merrier” is a motto for some, and your hubby might live squarely in this camp.
What should I do when I meet extraordinary guys that I don’t have any chemistry for? When do you know that chemistry is definitely not going to build over time?
What can you tell me about erectile dysfunction?
My sister-in-law has hated me from the start (4 years) because of a misunderstanding that took place when I was dating my husband. She acknowledges that it was a misunderstanding but she’s still horrible to me. She does petty things whenever she can.
I’m feeling anxious and unhappy about turning 30. Do I have to spend a lot of money to go to a friend’s wedding on top of that when I’m still single?
What did you wear when you met all those men? I wear dresses and boots, but I’m not getting many men and I’m not sure if it’s because I’m intimidating them, by the way, I am dressed. Yet I feel more comfortable in a dress and definitely look better.
I’m dating a man with children (15F, 19M, 23M) all living at home, full-time. They really like me, and have warmly welcomed me into the family. I’m wondering how to balance dates with my guy and family time with his kids.
I just found a secret email account that holds 40 addresses, most of which are gay men my husband has had sex with repeatedly. Is my husband secretly gay? I am crushed. I don’t know if I can trust him. What should I do?
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