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How Do I Dress for a Date?

What did you wear when you met all those men?  I wear dresses and boots, but I’m not getting many men and I’m not sure if it’s because I’m intimidating them, by the way, I am dressed. Yet I feel more comfortable in a dress and definitely look better.

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Is My Cheating Husband Gay?

I just found a secret email account that holds 40 addresses, most of which are gay men my husband has had sex with repeatedly. Is my husband secretly gay? I am crushed. I don’t know if I can trust him. What should I do?

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Does Being Unhappy Backfire?

Happiness is something that we all look for, hope for, or are envious of in others. A lucky few of us understand that happiness is a constant choice, not a circumstance or static state of being.

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How Do I Respond Online?

What’s a nice response to give when a guy has gotten a little passive-aggressive because he read a question in your profile that says no thank you?

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