Too Heartbroken to Date
June 16, 2017
Being in “good working order” for dating means you’re not heartbroken beyond words and you’re able to tell a story about a past partner without crying.
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How to Date as a Single Parent
June 12, 2017
Being available for your soon-to-be adult child at every text request, especially when you already have plans with others, teaches her an inaccurate lesson for life.
When You’re Not Exactly Cool with Your Girlfriend Being Polyamorous
June 8, 2017
Polyamory simply means having more than one consenting romantic/sexual relationship—so consent to her having her relationships. Or don’t. But the passive-aggressive thing that is going on here isn’t cool for anyone.
How Can I Keep Political Fighting Out of My Relationships?
June 6, 2017
If your girlfriend’s attitude is one of needing to be your everything, then this is a red flag.
Do I Tell His Wife He’s Cheating?
June 2, 2017
Hey Wendy I just found out I was the “other woman.” I thought my boyfriend was single but apparently, he’s been married for four years. Do I tell her? Landy
What Does “Dating Casually” Mean?
May 30, 2017
So, what’s the “norm” for dating casually? How often do casual daters see each other?
How Soon Is Too Soon for Sex Talk?
May 23, 2017
When a guy talks about sex in the first few exchanges before ever meeting you, he’s letting you know what he wants—and what he wants is, well. sex. Listen to your creep-o-meter—It’s dead-on
What If I’m Not His Type?
May 19, 2017
He recently admitted to me that he was generally attracted to a different body type than mine and that he sometimes finds me physically unattractive.
How Can I Get Him to Remember My Birthday?
May 16, 2017
All I wanted was a greeting or acknowledgement that it’s my birthday, and nothing. He knew my birthday was coming up but just completely forgot that today is THE day.
How Can I Avoid Online Dating Burnout?
May 12, 2017
Online dating can wipe me out. Any suggestions on how to not allow the online dating process to not feel like a draining sorting process?
My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Get Married, Help!
May 9, 2017
Now he tells me he never wants to get married or have kids. I am fine with it, I guess. Is it normal for a guy to change his mind like that?
How Long Will He Hold it Against Me?
May 5, 2017
Our relationship is overall really great, and we don’t hold on to resentment towards each other, but this keeps coming up every time we get into a really bad fight. What should I do?
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