How Do I Ask My Boyfriend to Do His Part Before He Moves In?
July 3, 2017
The next time he brings up moving in if I were in your shoes, I’d respond with…
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Can I Trust My New Boyfriend?
June 30, 2017
Sex offender registries were put in place to protect children, but they sometimes fail children.
How Do You Love Someone & Remain Detached?
June 28, 2017
Romance is tricky business. You actually have to be vulnerable. That’s where the magic happens, and nothing deep will ever develop if you’re working at being detached.
How do I Deal with My Boyfriend Meeting My Crazy Mother?
June 27, 2017
When that first meeting is definitely going to be awkward, learn how to deal with it head-on.
Why Does My Husband Watch Porn?
June 26, 2017
We often don’t find out that our partner/husband/boyfriend uses porn until we’re living together and we stumble upon it. So what’s a woman to do?
Why Won’t She Take My Name?
June 23, 2017
A healthy balance of autonomy in a partnership rocks! It’s also really, really, really good for the longevity of a happy relationship.
How Do I Deal with His High Sex Drive?
June 23, 2017
No one can count on a 100% libido match with their partner; plus, we all ebb and flow over the years. But each of us needs to consider this in the dating phase of a new relationship to examine if we’ll be a good fit for each other.
How Important is it to Have Things in Common within Your Relationship?
June 20, 2017
If his lack of knowledge/interest in intellectual topics cause you to lose respect for him, you don’t stand much of a chance together.
Who Initiates Communication Between Dates?
June 17, 2017
There are a million experts who will tell you what I recommend here is a terrible idea!
How to Keep the Courting Phase in Your Relationship
June 16, 2017
I’ve whipped up three courting phase best practices just for you, and for the readers…
Are We Compatible?
June 16, 2017
The things we discover in books are not immutable qualities or hard-and-fast rules. This is not science. These are not unchangeable differences you are stuck with or must overcome.
What is the Perfect First Date Spot?
June 16, 2017
No need to make a big production out of your first meet-and-greet date. Learn more…
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