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“All These Places Are MINE!”

I am new to polyamory and my current challenge is how I feel when my partner wants to do things with his partner(s) that he’s already done with me, like going to a particular restaurant, or a weekend getaway spot.

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Is He Busy or “Busy”?

Does the guy I’m dating feel rejected by me and did I handle this conversation badly? Or is he just looking for sex or is just not the type to text while traveling? Is it a bad sign that I haven’t heard from him in three days? 

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