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Am I Being Too Picky?

There’s nothing wrong with being picky as long as you like being single. If you have a standard of beauty you expect out of a mate, pick someone who is willing to maintain that level of aesthetic appearance.

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How to Date a Short Guy

There probably is a real number where yeah, height is a deal-breaker for you. That’s your prerogative; it’s fine to own that. However, this is said with some reluctance… Think of Peter Dinklage’s crash-worthiness. There’s always room for exceptions.

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I found my boyfriend’s sex tape

Are we entitled to our private sexual thoughts, strolls down memory lane, histories and fantasies when we’re coupled? Or is that cheating? Do we shred the sex tape or keep that memento? Read more…

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