Forgiving Emotional Infidelity
May 27, 2021
I’ve been with my boyfriend for over three years. He cheated on me when we first got together, not physically, but emotionally…
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Erections & Attraction: Why he might not get hard and what you can do about it.
May 13, 2021
I think my boyfriend might be losing interest in me. Last night, his dick was flaccid for the first time ever. I was just really sad and disappointed.
Are Men Predators or Protectors…
April 22, 2021
I’ve heard you say that most men would have a woman’s back if she needed help.
Why?
Will We Grow Together or Apart?
April 15, 2021
What are the signs of a guy who is willing and committed to learning and developing himself?
Friends with Benefits vs. Solo Polyamorous: Oh, the Choices!
April 1, 2021
“Traditional” relationships don’t work for me, so I would like to find a sex partner.
When the Extrovert Meets the Introvert (And Love Blossoms)
March 25, 2021
The new guy I’m dating is very outgoing and I’m kind of an introvert. He’s cultured and has traveled all over the world and has had adventures I couldn’t even dream of. We’re kind of opposites.
Why He Can Move on When You’re (Still) Emotionally Wrecked
March 18, 2021
My ex-husband met someone new in March. He and I were together through May. By June, they were a couple being introduced to our children.
Where Are All the Men?
March 11, 2021
I’m looking for ideas on how to connect to age-appropriate men.
“All These Places Are MINE!”
March 4, 2021
I am new to polyamory and my current challenge is how I feel when my partner wants to do things with his partner(s) that he’s already done with me, like going to a particular restaurant, or a weekend getaway spot.
It Took Years - It Should Have Taken Weeks
February 25, 2021
I learned that after two years, my boyfriend doesn’t want to take the next step in our relationship because he doesn’t feel a spark, and he’s not sure he ever did.
Ideas for Valentine’s in Covid Times
February 10, 2021
I’m not sure how I’m supposed to make my partner feel special on Valentine’s Day with Covid-19. There’s snow on the ground - I can’t even take her out to dinner. Help!
Is He Busy or “Busy”?
February 4, 2021
Does the guy I’m dating feel rejected by me and did I handle this conversation badly? Or is he just looking for sex or is just not the type to text while traveling? Is it a bad sign that I haven’t heard from him in three days?
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