How Do I Deal with Online Insults?
July 28, 2017
Want to know how to respond to “suuuupppp?” or “hi baby”? Read on…
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How Do I Get More Affection from My Boyfriend?
July 26, 2017
One of the most common mistakes in long-term relationships is when a person knows they’re in a mismatch but chooses not to leave. Learn how to work it out.
How Do I Say What I Want in Bed?
July 25, 2017
Your partner should want to know what you like and what works for you (as defined by you), just like you want to know what he likes and what works for him.
Help Me with Online Dating Photos
July 21, 2017
There’s a big difference between posting bad shots and posting “artsy” shots. Learn what I mean by an “artsy” shot.
Are All The Guys Online Married?
July 19, 2017
Can you trust the men you go out with to be who they say they are, even if you’ve been burned before? Yes. Read more…
How Do I Friend-Zone Someone?
July 17, 2017
Here’s the move, but only use it if you honest-to-God, really want to be friends with them…
How Do I Deal With My Drunk Boyfriend?
July 17, 2017
A person who doesn’t have a drinking problem but got a little overzealous at the thought of consuming a 32-ouncer would be sheepish or apologetic the next day, and they would most def apologize.
Four Fighting Styles That Break Couples Up
July 14, 2017
There are four consistent elements of discord that lead couples to break up based on how they fight. Find them out here, and consider removing them from your repertoire.
Why Some Relationships Fail?
July 12, 2017
When you lose respect for the man you love, it’s the beginning of the end. Your urge to do the nasty wanes.
How Can I Adjust to My Partner Coming Home From the Navy?
July 10, 2017
This experience is not at all uncommon, and the dynamics of the situation will happen every time.
Am I a Rebound to a Widower?
July 10, 2017
No one wants to be a rebound, and as annoying as this is, it’s hard to predict how things will unfold. Some dive into a relationship and then bounce right out after they’ve hit something deep, while others have staying power. Here’s what to look for…
How Do I Form Meaningful Relationships with People?
July 7, 2017
Instead of talking about the weather, talk about what matters to you. What do you love about your life? What are you challenged by? What’s happening that’s upsetting you? What’s your actual deal? And listen to your friends reveal themselves too.
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