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How Do I Respond Online?

What’s a nice response to give when a guy has gotten a little passive-aggressive because he read a question in your profile that says no thank you?

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Why Did He Disappear?

No messages, no phone calls, nothing. What gives? If he wasn’t interested, why would he continue messaging me for so long? It seems cruel.

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How Do I Say I’m Not Interested?

Hey Quinn, If you’re an online dater, you can use the sorting filters they provide. This gives viewers information about your preferences but won’t block them from contacting you. If

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How Did I Blow My First Date?

When I first meet the guy, he likes me but by the end of the date, he’s out. Some of them say, “It’s not you, it’s me” but I’m guessing it’s me. Could you give me advice on what to say (or not say) on a first date to make them want another one?

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Should I Leave My Boyfriend for Money?

My guy is in the entertainment industry and he’s broke, but very talented. He’s also younger than me and is not likely to have the things a man needs in order to be ready for marriage any time soon. But we want to be together. I

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