Do I Give the New Guy a Gift?
September 18, 2017
Most people born on or near Christmas prefer that we celebrate the two separately and not collapse the festivities. But a gift when you’re new?
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How Do I Tell My Boyfriend That Before I Dated Him I Made Porn Films?
September 15, 2017
Have you ever wondered, “How do I tell my boyfriend that I used to make porn films?” Don’t worry, Relationship Expert, Wendy Newman has got you on this.
My Husband Won’t Leave the House
September 12, 2017
Her husband won’t leave the house, and when the wife asks, he won’t budge. Learn how to ask for what you need in relationships through Wendy’s advice.
How to Tell on Instagram if He’s Dating Her?
September 11, 2017
When you think someone is single, and it turns out their status is “it’s complicated” your job is to not complicate it any further. Read more…
How Do I Show My Wife I Love Her?
September 8, 2017
One kind act a day that gives her the gift of time, or makes her life a little easier or shows love and affection will change your relationship with forever.
What’s the Best Way to Meet His Children?
September 8, 2017
Want to know how to be that nice lady that his children like? Read more…
It’s My Wedding, Not My Mom’s…
September 6, 2017
Consider tradition and convention, but scrutinize the hell out of it, and after you’ve picked through the vows and prayers and Office-style goofy aisle dances, create something meaningful that reflects the two of you.
What If He Says He Wants Something Casual But Won’t Stop Texting?
September 5, 2017
Sometimes women get “I’m looking for something casual” when we come on too strong in the first few hours of knowing someone.
Can Dating Long Distance Work?
September 4, 2017
An unfortunate aspect to dating long distance is you two can’t fully show each other who you are until you’re together (in the same place) for an extended period of time.
How Can I Screen for Similar Financial Values
September 1, 2017
Hey Wendy, As a single woman, how do I screen for similar financial values? I date the over-65 crowd. Did you know that over 70% of seniors have no real
How Do I Get Through the Silent Treatment?
September 1, 2017
Do you know how to deal with your boyfriend giving you the silent treatment? We’ve got this…
Are All Guys Polyamorous?
August 30, 2017
It takes courage and conviction to come out as poly or otherwise non-monogamous. Trying to flip him might just be like trying to flip a dude at the gay bar (possible, but supremely unlikely).
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