You are entitled to want what you want and to not settle for anything less, but know this: If you go out and look for a mate on a site based on money, know what your dates will be focused on? Money.
The initial zesty-hotness in any new relationship is a cocktail mixture of chemistry, newness and uncertainty. The slowdown doesn’t mean you don’t love each other – it does mean that you know and count on each other.
Two solutions that are drama-free and kind. Enjoy.