How Can I Get Her Back?
October 9, 2017
After going on 121 first dates, I cracked the code for how to find your true love…
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How to Break Off a Friends with Benefits
October 6, 2017
Wondering what the relationship rules are for a break-up with a friend with benefits? Do you have a sit-down? Dodge it? Text? Ghost? (No ghosting!) Read on!
When Is the Right Time to Tell Him About My Bipolar Disorder?
October 5, 2017
When disclosing ANYTHING, come armed with useful, trusted internet links so your person doesn’t run off and Google and get wildly inaccurate information—you know, like the kind the Internet tends to provide.
Am I the Rebound?
October 3, 2017
When you met him, he was likely in a dark place. You came along and brought sunlight, good conversation, probably really great blowjobs, and one other very special ingredient: you brought him hope. You, my love, were the…
One More Thing That’s Wrong with the Cow/Milk/Marry Phrase
October 3, 2017
Do you think strategizing about your relationship will help you move up the ladder from girlfriend to wife? Do you want wife privileges? Read on.
Dating A Guy With A Girlfriend?
October 2, 2017
Learn about the conversation that everyone in this lopsided triangle needs and deserves to have.
Am I In Charge of Planning This Stupid Party?
September 29, 2017
Ever feel trapped by others expectations? Wondered “how am i in charge?” Wendy Newman, Relationship Expert offers you a way out when your heart isn’t in it.
Navigating loneliness when you’re single
September 26, 2017
Are you single and fighting the sadness of being alone? Want to know how to get over loneliness? Wendy Newman gives you your next steps.
How Do I Deal with My Husband’s Business Trips?
September 25, 2017
What will calm your nerves around this? Can your man pony up? More on how to handle trust here.
I Can’t Shake an Attraction for My Co-Worker
September 23, 2017
Wondering how to deal with a crush or attraction to a co-worker that can’t go anywhere? Dating and relationship expert Wendy Newman has the answer.
Can We Be Partners and NOT Live Together?
September 19, 2017
Just moving in together just because it’s “time” is outdated. Today we have more options than ever. Learn what you should consider prior to shacking up.
Am I the Only One Who Doesn’t Like Alone Time?
September 19, 2017
This is part of the courting experience—seeing beyond “I love you” to “Are we a good fit?”
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