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Does Porn Play Out In Real Life?

A couple of months ago I found out that he was very much into incest porn. This is something he is extremely ashamed of. One night, after he fell asleep, I checked his history even though I told him I would respect his personal life.

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My Boyfriend is Broke, Should I Keep Him?

Does he have a plan for paying the bills while he’s investing in his passion? Do you share similar lifestyle expectations? What’s his relationship with money? Has he planned for a side job that will help the two of you make ends meet?

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How Can I Get His Ex To Like Me?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year. He doesn’t have many friends and his ex-girlfriend is one of his closest friends. They “share” her dog. He loves this dog and sees his ex like a sister. I don’t have a problem with that.

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Does Your Sex Number Matter?

At the start of dating, my wife told me the number of men she’s had sex with was 3. She’s recently admitted that the real number is 40. How do I not despise her for this? She has been my best friend for a long time, but she has also lied a LOT about sexual things.

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Do I Have to Tell Him My Age?

I’ve met a wonderful man who’s 36, and he doesn’t know I’m 35 yet. He hasn’t asked for my age, but I feel he needs to know ASAP, as he might want someone younger considering I look like I’m 25 maximum. I want a husband and a family, but I’m afraid that he won’t want me because I’m too old. What if no man my age will want me anymore?

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How Do I Get My Husband to Remember Valentine’s Day?

He’s never gotten it right in the seven years we’ve been together. He just doesn’t think it through. I got a card, and we ate out at a place in the neighborhood we go to all the time. It was just another uneventful night, and I certainly didn’t feel special. How can I get him to nail it? He doesn’t have a clue.

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BDSM Advice

My girlfriend and I have been together for seven years. From the beginning, I’ve been the dom and she has been my sub. Recently we had a heart to heart where she expressed she’s no longer happy being the sub, and instead wants to switch our relationship around and flip the power dynamics so she’s the dom and I’m the sub.

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Should I Believe My Husband?

My husband and I broke up two months ago and the split was ugly. A week ago he called me and said he wanted to try again. I was very excited because I missed him so much even though my friends thought he treated me like crap.

During our reconciliation, he told me he hadn’t kissed another woman while we were apart.

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