What Can I believe When Online Dating?
January 20, 2017
Cautiously optimistic with eyes wide open is your optimal approach for dating this guy.
My Boyfriend is Always Late
January 13, 2017
Wendy, I’m in a new relationship that’s an easy and harmonious fit in so many ways. I’m feeling safe because I’m choosing to trust him to act with best intentions. I want to live by the “no one is ever in trouble” relationship model you and your partner share.
Do I Have to Go on a Group Trip?
January 6, 2017
Dear Disappointed, Wow, that sucks, I’m sorry! Let’s start with, “Am I wrong?” That’s a question to ask yourself when you’re calculating a math problem, or when you’re the only
How Long Should I Date Someone without Chemistry?
January 6, 2017
What should I do when I meet extraordinary guys that I don’t have any chemistry for?
How Do I Deal with Erectile Dysfunction?
December 29, 2016
Wendy,
What can you tell me about erectile dysfunction? How should I deal with it? What is it? How common is it?
How Do I Deal with Relatives at the Holidays?
December 23, 2016
Friday, December 23, 2016 Wendy, my sister-in-law has hated me from the start (4 years) because of a misunderstanding that took place when I was dating my husband. She acknowledges
Am I Terminally Single?
December 16, 2016
Friday, December 16, 2016 Wendy, my childhood friend is having her marriage celebration a year after they were married. When they tied the knot, they didn’t have the money to
How Do I Dress for a Date?
December 9, 2016
Friday, December 9, 2016 Wendy, what did you wear when you met all those men? I wear dresses and boots, but I’m not getting many men and I’m not sure
How Do I Balance Dating a Man & Spending Time with His Kids?
December 2, 2016
Friday, December 2, 2016 Dear Wendy, I’m dating a man with children (15F, 19M, 23M) all living at home, full-time. They really like me, and have warmly welcomed me into the
Is My Cheating Husband Gay?
November 24, 2016
Friday, November 25, 2016 My husband and I had a baby just nine months after we met. I then found out he had another girlfriend. I left. He apologized, promised never
How Can I Have Better Sex with My Husband & His Huge Penis?
November 18, 2016
Friday, November 18, 2016 My husband has a huge penis and sex with him has always hurt. I haven’t said anything because I’m not sure there’s anything that can be
How Can We Live With President Trump?
November 10, 2016
Friday, November 11, 2016 My partner is upset and somewhat inconsolable about the election. I’m worried. What can I do? We’ve been Trumped. Dear Trumped, I hear you, sister. Half (or
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