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How Can I Tell Him?

I’d really like to see you let your new guy walk into your home with his eyes wide open to see what you really need help with because he’s actively offering to pitch in. If you’re unwilling, I still recommend the truth.

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Does Porn Play Out In Real Life?

A couple of months ago I found out that he was very much into incest porn. This is something he is extremely ashamed of. One night, after he fell asleep, I checked his history even though I told him I would respect his personal life.

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My Boyfriend is Broke, Should I Keep Him?

Does he have a plan for paying the bills while he’s investing in his passion? Do you share similar lifestyle expectations? What’s his relationship with money? Has he planned for a side job that will help the two of you make ends meet?

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How Can I Get Her To Like Me?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year. He doesn’t have many friends and his ex-girlfriend is one of his closest friends. They “share” her dog. He loves this dog and sees his ex like a sister. I don’t have a problem with that.

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Does Your Sex Number Matter?

At the start of dating, my wife told me the number of men she’s had sex with was 3. She’s recently admitted that the real number is 40. How do I not despise her for this? She has been my best friend for a long time, but she has also lied a LOT about sexual things.

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