How Can I Tell If a Relationship is a Bad One?
November 1, 2017
Ever wondered how you could tell if the one you’re dating now is a good guy? Do you trust your instincts? Or does your history show you could use some help?
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Can I Date My Friend’s Ex?
October 27, 2017
“Hey, friend! Long time no talk. Funny thing…I met a great guy online and we’re dating now” This is how you start an email to tell your friend you’re dating their ex.
How Can I Deal with His Financial Problems?
October 27, 2017
Relationships are tough enough when things are good. A boyfriend’s financial problems can make life rougher. How to deal with partnership if he’s broke.
Can I Invite My Friend & Not Her Boyfriend?
October 25, 2017
If you want to be a good friend, stick close to her, and if the two of them fall apart, you can gently assist her in taking off her rose-colored glasses.
How Do I Get A Commitment After Sex?
October 20, 2017
Hey Wendy, I put myself back in the world of online dating at the start of this year. I’ve been dating a lot of different guys, but there’s one that’s
Where Are All the Single Guys Over 50?
October 17, 2017
Hey Wendy, You say there are plenty of quality men available to date; even for us women who are over 50. But I’m not seeing them… anywhere! True, I don’t
Why Won’t She Take a Complement?
October 16, 2017
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about six weeks now. And she does this thing; she denies any compliments I give to her. When I turned 30 I realized I was bi and this is my first real girl/girl relationship, so that might have something to do with it.
I Make More Than My Husband, Does That Matter?
October 13, 2017
If you have different priorities around money, I recommend you keep your accounts separate but…
Do I Need to Lose Weight to Date?
October 12, 2017
Ever wondered if you needed to lose weight or change aspect about yourself before you were ready to date? Maybe there’s a good reason to date as you are.
Is it Love if There Isn’t a Spark?
October 11, 2017
Have you ever been to a Fourth of July fireworks show that never ends? Yeah, me neither.
What Does “I Can’t Give You What You Need” Mean?
October 10, 2017
I would say, “Hey. So what is it that you think I want?” Then I’d listen. I’d clarify. Most of all, I…
How Do I Handle an Unsatisfying Sex Life?
October 10, 2017
When you have an unsatisfying sex life do you stay or do you go? It’s not simple. And when BDSM calls to you, it’s a call that usually can’t be ignored.
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