How Long is the Courting Phase Supposed to Last?
June 16, 2017
I recommend you get behind this idea of being caught. This is when you shift from “courting” to “supporting, loving partnership.
Are We Compatible?
June 16, 2017
The things we discover in books are not immutable qualities or hard-and-fast rules. This is not science. These are not unchangeable differences you are stuck with or must overcome.
What is the Perfect First Date Spot?
June 16, 2017
No need to make a big production out of your first meet-and-greet date. Learn more…
How Much Should I Say About My Ex?
June 16, 2017
Being in “good working order” for dating means you’re not heartbroken beyond words and you’re able to tell a story about a past partner without crying.
How Do I Date as a Single Mom?
June 12, 2017
Being available for your soon-to-be adult child at every text request, especially when you already have plans with others, teaches her an inaccurate lesson for life.
How Can I Accept My Polyamorous Girlfriend?
June 8, 2017
Polyamory simply means having more than one consenting romantic/sexual relationship—so consent to her having her relationships. Or don’t. But the passive-aggressive thing that is going on here isn’t cool for anyone.
How Can I Keep Political Fighting Out of My Relationships?
June 6, 2017
If your girlfriend’s attitude is one of needing to be your everything, then this is a red flag.
Do I Tell His Wife He’s Cheating?
June 2, 2017
Hey Lady! I’m sure I’ll lose the popular vote on this answer, but girlfriend to girlfriend, my advice to you is nope, you don’t tell her.
What Does “Dating Casually” Mean?
May 30, 2017
So, what’s the “norm” for dating casually? How often do casual daters see each other?
How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to His Ex?
May 26, 2017
I knew all about this other woman before I ever spoke one word to my boyfriend, so I’m having trouble feeling like I’m not as good and won’t measure up.
How Soon Is Too Soon for Sex Talk?
May 23, 2017
When a guy talks about sex in the first few exchanges before ever meeting you, he’s letting you know what he wants—and what he wants is, well. sex. Listen to your creep-o-meter—It’s dead-on
What If I’m Not His Type?
May 19, 2017
He recently admitted to me that he was generally attracted to a different body type than mine and that he sometimes finds me physically unattractive.
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