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Skin Deep

What happens when attraction starts with physical appearance? Oh wait, almost all attraction starts this way…

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dating a felon

I’m Dating a Felon

You just never know who you’re going to drink coffee with when you’re newly dating. Would learning that you’re dating a felon be a dealbreaker for you?

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Magical & Visceral

“Why weren’t we taught this in school??? This is right on and has already transformed my relationship with my boyfriend. It feels magical and visceral. Thank you!”

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A Bright Future

“Thank you, Wendy, for your generous insight and compassionate understanding of men. I joined your workshop with my mother. We are desperately trying to break eight generations of bad relationship dynamics with the men in our family. I’m sure that we are on a different path and look forward to a bright future being happy and healthy in our relationships with all men in our lives. All my love.” Hailey B. – Seattle, Washington