Does My Ex Want To Get Back Together With Me?
January 5, 2018
How seriously should you take an ex who says they want to get back together? Is it better to try again? Or to cut your losses and move on?
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He Has Given Me Every Reason To Trust Him, And I Still Don’t Trust Him
December 28, 2017
When you can’t trust him, and he’s the one you love, what do you do? Can you “check in” on him? Get the answer from an unexpected source from the ’80s.
My Husband Acts Like A Child
December 21, 2017
When a husband acts like a child, resentment is inevitable. Creating accountability in partnership is key to a happy life.
Skin Deep
December 14, 2017
What happens when attraction starts with physical appearance? Oh wait, almost all attraction starts this way…
How Do I Get Quality Time Back in My Relationship?
December 8, 2017
When we know and live with a person for a long time, they become family. So how do you keep the spark when there’s all that familiarity?
My Boyfriend Doesn’t Honor My Boundaries
November 30, 2017
We could be talking about any part of your body here, even your elbow. If you think, ‘my boyfriend doesn’t honor my boundaries’, this is a show-stopper.
How Do I Navigate This Friends with Benefits?
November 24, 2017
How can you navigate Friends with Benefits if you’re not getting the sex you need? It’s like a double assault if what you really want is a relationship.
How do you find happiness in being single?
November 17, 2017
Finding happiness in being single can be hard when you don’t have anyone to witness our life day in and day out. Take the first step to single & happy now.
I’m Dating a Felon
November 14, 2017
You just never know who you’re going to drink coffee with when you’re newly dating. Would learning that you’re dating a felon be a dealbreaker for you?
Marriage, Religion & Conflict
November 10, 2017
The time your husband asked your brother to leave the house because of his gayness. Family dynamics can be challenging, but who’s side do you take?
The 2-Step Process to Compatibility
November 7, 2017
He likes motorcycles and you, um… don’t. He’s a foodie and you like an old-school diner. Can this work? Are you compatible to couple?
My Boyfriend’s Heath Problems Are Alarming – Can I Get Him To Change?
November 3, 2017
Having different standards around lifestyle habits like health can be a challenge in relationships. Far better to deal with it sooner rather than later.
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