Sometimes women get “I’m looking for something casual” when we come on too strong in the first few hours of knowing someone.
We are all entitled to our private thoughts, erotic fantasies, and imagination. What turns us on is no one else’s business. But when your guy wants to bring fantasy into reality, then yeah, it kind of is your business.
You are entitled to want what you want and to not settle for anything less, but know this: If you go out and look for a mate on a site based on money, know what your dates will be focused on? Money.
The initial zesty-hotness in any new relationship is a cocktail mixture of chemistry, newness and uncertainty. The slowdown doesn’t mean you don’t love each other – it does mean that you know and count on each other.