What Happened in My Relationship? Was it Him or Me?
March 9, 2018
Sometimes asking “what happened?” is worth doing so you can grow from the relationship experience. But sometimes the answers just won’t serve you.
What’s the Right Pace for Dating a New Person?
March 1, 2018
When a style or method you employ feels right for you but it’s widely promoted in the culture as not optimal, take a pause, do a doublecheck, and see if what you think still holds true.
Should My Marriage Be Open Or Closed?
February 23, 2018
Open marriages work well for many couples worldwide. And opening a marriage has destroyed good relationships just as often. So which one is the right choice?
Can I Date Someone With A Filthy House?
February 16, 2018
If everything else about your date lined up, like your values, goals, and lifestyle, would this be a problem for you? There’s an easy solution for this!
How Does #metoo Apply to Me?
February 8, 2018
Sexual assault isn’t something we should tolerate, but—sadly and infuriatingly—it’s a part of society’s landscape. #metoo is a wake-up call for all of us.
Is it Disrespectful that My Husband Doesn’t Wear a Wedding Ring?
February 2, 2018
Does wearing (or not wearing) a wedding ring determine the strength and durability of a marriage? Read on…
I Keep Looking at Online Dating Apps to See If I Can Do Better
January 26, 2018
Online dating apps make it so easy for us to see who else is out there. Have you met the right fit or should you keep looking? Stay on or log off?
What’s A Relationship Red Flag? What’s A Pink Post-It?
January 12, 2018
Politics are a hot topic, and things can go sideways if you’re on opposite sides of the aisle. Is this a red flag deal-breaker or something to accept?
Does My Ex Want To Get Back Together With Me?
January 5, 2018
How seriously should you take an ex who says they want to get back together? Is it better to try again? Or to cut your losses and move on?
He Has Given Me Every Reason To Trust Him, And I Still Don’t Trust Him
December 28, 2017
When you can’t trust him, and he’s the one you love, what do you do? Can you “check in” on him? Get the answer from an unexpected source from the ’80s.
My Husband Acts Like A Child
December 21, 2017
When a husband acts like a child, resentment is inevitable. Creating accountability in partnership is key to a happy life.
Skin Deep
December 14, 2017
What happens when attraction starts with physical appearance? Oh wait, almost all attraction starts this way…
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