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Why Am I Getting Ghosted After Sex?

“Where is this going?” plagues singles everywhere. But asking this of someone new is like working on a 1,000-piece puzzle together, with only seven blue sky edge pieces in place then asking, “Why isn’t this done yet?”

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Is he Into Me or Not?

A guy, even when uninterested, sometimes fires back a quick answer to the cute girl who emailed just to get another little taste of kindness, indulgence, or thoughtfulness. So how can you tell if he’s interested?…

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Magical & Visceral

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A Bright Future

“Thank you, Wendy, for your generous insight and compassionate understanding of men. I joined your workshop with my mother. We are desperately trying to break eight generations of bad relationship dynamics with the men in our family. I’m sure that we are on a different path and look forward to a bright future being happy and healthy in our relationships with all men in our lives. All my love.” Hailey B. – Seattle, Washington