How to Get Online Daters to Engage
October 25, 2018
It’s not too much to ask of dates, to be able to string a couple of well-crafted sentences together and bring a little curiosity to the conversation.
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Why Am I Getting Ghosted After Sex?
October 12, 2018
“Where is this going?” plagues singles everywhere. But asking this of someone new is like working on a 1,000-piece puzzle together, with only seven blue sky edge pieces in place then asking, “Why isn’t this done yet?”
If My Date Has Anxiety, Is That a Red Flag?
October 5, 2018
When it comes to anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues, you just can’t evaluate a relative stranger for signs and symptoms and then know whether they’re in good enough working order. Here’s what to do…
How Do I Stop Being Clingy & Too Needy?
September 21, 2018
Finding the balance between being needy and having needs can be challenging. Read more to get practical steps for understanding the difference.
How Can I Tell When I’m Ready to Date Again?
September 14, 2018
You’ve got to discern if you’re in good enough working order to be out there before you can date. The good news is it doesn’t have to take you six months—in fact, it doesn’t have to take you six days if you’re motivated.
Is My Long-Distance Relationship in the Friend Zone?
September 7, 2018
Long distance is rough! There’s a lot to consider beyond the distance. Read on to learn more.
Is My Boyfriend Bisexual and Cheating?
August 30, 2018
Many bi guys never disclose their sexuality to their female partners because of the social stigma attached to bisexual men, and to bisexuality in general. Read on for more about this complex topic.
I Don’t Understand How Sex & Dating Works
August 23, 2018
Is sorting for sexual compatibility from the homepage of an online dating profile socially acceptable? Read on to learn more.
Why Am I Attracting Men Who Only Want Sex?
August 17, 2018
A guy who only wants to have sex won’t have anything to lose if you wince when he rolls out lines like, “Want to play, Barbie? I’ll be Ken and you can be the box I come in.”
How Can I Help My Unemployed Boyfriend?
August 10, 2018
Direct, to the point, no messing around is the best way to approach an unemployed mate. But there’s more…
Is he Into Me or Not?
August 3, 2018
A guy, even when uninterested, sometimes fires back a quick answer to the cute girl who emailed just to get another little taste of kindness, indulgence, or thoughtfulness. So how can you tell if he’s interested?…
Why Don’t Men Approach Me?
July 26, 2018
Even if you’re giving off steamy come-hither signals just short of setting your blouse on fire, that cutie the next aisle over may still hesitate. Learn why…
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