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Is he Into Me or Not?

A guy, even when uninterested, sometimes fires back a quick answer to the cute girl who emailed just to get another little taste of kindness, indulgence, or thoughtfulness. So how can you tell if he’s interested?…

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Why Am I Attracted to Married Men?

Are you independent? Do you love autonomy? Married guys have limited availability, leaving you free as a birdie to travel, focus on your career, hang out with girlfriends, see other men, go to yoga class, shop, and generally not be bothered by the minutia of coupledom.

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