My boyfriend asked me to go out to dinner with his best friend and the best friend’s wife the other night. I declined because I had a hectic week. He said I should go and that we come as a package.
I mentioned to my date that I’d never spent a night naked next to man without him pressuring me to have sex. He didn’t want to talk about it right then. Now what?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 18 months. He has his place and I have mine. We both have strong feelings for each and other, and I would like to know at what time do I ask about cohabitating?
For the past few months, I have been dating a guy who has a brother who is dating my cousin (4 years strong).
I have a friend with benefits that I see occasionally, but I always end up feeling very depressed after seeing him. The depression is fairly intense and lasts at least a day.
I have a deal-breaker that I won’t date men fresh out of a marriage or long-term relationship. However, I know several women who found their guy just this way! I believe you did as well?
Wondering about sending a text to connect with an old friend who might be available for dating now.
I trust that nothing physical has happened between them, but something in my gut is telling me that there are some unresolved feelings between them. Some of her actions actually are red flags to me.
I’m wanting to know what strategies you used to stay optimistic when dating those 121 men? Did you feel optimistic? Were there times you felt you were never going to find someone?
He doesn’t talk very much about his feelings, instead, he likes to show me how he feels through his actions.
The problem is that I also have difficulty communicating my feelings at times. As long as I’m paying attention, it works, but sometimes I’m afraid I’ll miss something or I’ll interpret his actions the wrong way.
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If it’s impossible for you to be happy and have what you need without marriage, then you have your answer. That’s what “deal-breaker” means.
Not quite ready to go that far? Okay, we can work with that, too.
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