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Am I Being Too Picky?

There’s nothing wrong with being picky as long as you like being single. If you have a standard of beauty you expect out of a mate, pick someone who is willing to maintain that level of aesthetic appearance.

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How to Date a Short Guy

There probably is a real number where yeah, height is a deal-breaker for you. That’s your prerogative; it’s fine to own that. However, this is said with some reluctance… Think of Peter Dinklage’s crash-worthiness. There’s always room for exceptions.

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Magical & Visceral

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A Bright Future

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