He’s Not Intimidated by Your Independence—He’s Put Off by It
October 8, 2021
Men say they want the “whole package” yet I’m still single. Help!
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Why Everyone Thinks You Need Dating Advice
September 30, 2021
I have fabulous married women friends. Many of them know I’m on a quest to find love, and many have taken this quest on with and for me. Why?
How to Tell If Your Relationship is Toxic
September 23, 2021
I’ve been married eleven years and my relationship might be toxic. Help!
Gold Digger or Using Common Sense – Looking at Partnership & Money
September 16, 2021
I’m in good financial shape and I’m a bit worried about the financial situation of the new guy I’m dating.
The 3-Step Approach to Finding a Love Match When You’re Shy
September 9, 2021
I’m very shy and submissive. How can I find a domineering woman?
When Dating Gets Harder with Age
July 22, 2021
I am finding it harder and harder to commit to actual dates. I’d rather chill with the guy I know, even though he’s already told me he’s not interested in me that way.
Butt - I Don’t Want To
June 17, 2021
I was very clear about anal being a dealbreaker for me. I’ve tried it. It was painful, and not at all pleasurable. He enjoyed it in past relationships but assured me that my desire to not have it wasn’t a dealbreaker for him to marry me.
Polyamory and the New Old Girlfriend
June 10, 2021
My boyfriend identifies as polyam and has felt this way all his adult life.
I never thought I could be happy in a polyamorous relationship because I get too triggered. Then, I accidentally fell in love with another guy (too) and now I feel like I can love more than one partner.
Forgiving Emotional Infidelity
May 27, 2021
I’ve been with my boyfriend for over three years. He cheated on me when we first got together, not physically, but emotionally…
Erections & Attraction: Why he might not get hard and what you can do about it.
May 13, 2021
I think my boyfriend might be losing interest in me. Last night, his dick was flaccid for the first time ever. I was just really sad and disappointed.
Are Men Predators or Protectors…
April 22, 2021
I’ve heard you say that most men would have a woman’s back if she needed help.
Why?
Will We Grow Together or Apart?
April 15, 2021
What are the signs of a guy who is willing and committed to learning and developing himself?
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