Products for Single or Dating

Everyone can use a little pick-me up for their love life. So whether you’re happily single, learning how to be happy single, or miserably single, I have a little something for you.

I could tell you how to find a man. And keep a man. And even keep him in line, but happy coupling goes way beyond that. Any of us could find a man. Finding is easy, it’s sorting for the right one for you that can be challenging. I am very clear about what it takes to find the right person, and not only keep them, but keep the love, happiness and relationship in top shape. And I want you to have that too.

My programs are fast, direct and focused. We discover what you need, get to the heart of what’s getting in your way, clear that up and get you back out there.

So take a look and grab what you need. I tried to provide a range of items, and I included what’s free at the top for a quick grab. If you think you need something I don’t offer, shoot me an email, because I might just be able to get it for you.

If you’re feeling like it’s some one-on-one time with me or one of my trusted coaches that you’re looking for, find more offerings here.

I also have a-mazing live classes you can take online or over the phone here.

You’re on your way to love right now. Keep going with the tools you need. You don’t have to waste one more bad date with the wrong one. I had to go on 121 first dates to meet my love. I did it so you don’t have to. Get help, grace and ease in your dating life. These tools will cut down on the number of dates you have to go on get to your love, I promise!

Happy shopping!


Online Dating Essentials Video Workshop ~ Limited Offer

Video & Audio Download (3 hours + 40 minutes)

A Comprehensive Course on Online Dating (Through February Only)

Is one of your New Year’s resolutions to meet your man?

Guess where all the guys are…online. Yes, over 30% of new relationships begin online. How many friends do you have that meet their love online? At least one, right?!? More like five.

Online is where to be if you crave more love, romance, play and companionship in your life.

In This Video & Audio Series, You Will Learn …

  • Top 3 online dating mistakes almost all women make
  • How to get a higher quality guy online
  • That men and women approach online dating differently and how misunderstanding a man’s perspective ruins it for everyone
  • The 6 essential photos you MUST post to get more views and reach outs
  • How to write your dating profile so that guys read it
  • What to say when he wants to know more than you want to reveal?
  • What to write in the initial message to him (whether he initiates or you do)
  • What to do with “likes,” “winks” and “flirts”
  • How to identify scammers and conmen
  • How to avoid becoming a pen pal and being overwhelmed with texts
  • How to move effectively from online to real life without becoming the pursuer
  • How to handle your online date when in person he’s nothing like the guy online
  • Rejection: how to deliver it with kindness AND what do when you receive it
  • And so much more…

Learn how to succeed at online dating now! Learn more


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First Date Success Secrets Revealed…

Video & Audio Download, FREE

Your 3 Step Process to First Date Success

Girl, you’ve been on that date where you totally blew it, right? It was going so well, and then you accidentally dipped into the dating checklist and he was annoyed. Or you brought up a topic that was off-limits — who knew?!? It happens to the best of us. You’ll do better next time with the help of this free gift.

In This Video & Audio Series You Will Learn …

    • What to never say on a first date (and so many of us do!)
    • What to talk about on a first date to have him think you’re amazing while you get the information you crave without the interview process
    • The question that will qualify or disqualify your date

Because we all learn in different ways, I created this product with three videos as well as three audio files. Listen or watch, your choice! (40 minutes in length.)

Come get this life-changing free gift.

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How To Overcome Jealousy

Audio Download, FREE

Did you notice I didn’t title this “How to CURE Jealousy”?

I sure wish I could, because jealousy is an extremely painful emotion. And what’s ironic, is the very jealousy that arises from our love for someone can be the very thing that destroys love.

Jealousy is a handy-dandy built-in feature that comes standard in humans. Think of it like a light switch. It can be shocking how fast that sucker gets flipped on!

While we can’t cure it, we can certainly harness it; we can use it for highly constructive purposes. We can use it for good.

In This Audio Product You Will Learn How To…

    • Overcome the emotion of jealousy so you don’t poison your love
    • Eradicate it from your system when it’s got you gripped
    • Use jealousy as a valuable signal to make repairs and deals in your life
    • Utilize jealousy to improve your relationship(s)
    • Handle your feelings of fear, abandonment, loss, sorrow, anger, betrayal, and humiliation
    • Curb your desire to control your partner
    • Set boundaries with others around their jealousy
    • Deal with jealousy in the workspace and among competition with peers
    • Mend the fallout of jealousy, the feeling of a loss of personal value and power

Come get this life-changing free gift. The audio is about 34 minutes in length.

121 First Dates

Paperback Book, $16

The Anti-Rules Book of Practical Wisdom & Hilarious Tales

Do you want to succeed at dating, fall in love and live happily ever after (Really!)? Then grab this book!

Part guidebook, part titillating tell-all, 121 First Dates is the best friend you will be happy to have on your dating quest. Sharing the often hilarious, always heartfelt, and sometimes mortifying first dates I went on to find my perfect match, I have made every imaginable dating mistake out there — so you don’t have to. Busting myths, answers age-old questions, and examining the pitfalls that make you want to give up on dating altogether, I offer you a treasure trove of best practices you need to navigate the online dating trenches. But most of all, 121 First Dates will inspire you to keep stepping out until you find your happily-ever-after.

“The judgement-free zone located within the pages of 121 First Dates playfully guide women through the dating process while granting them the freedom and permission to find what they truly need in a relationship.”
-Alison A. Armstrong, author of The Queen’s Code

Access Hollywood, The Wall Street Journal, Chicago Tribune, Washington Post, Glamour, Self and so many more are showing love for 121 First Dates.

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Finding Your Love

Workbook + Video Workshop, $97 USD

finding your loveDiscover exactly what you’re looking for in a partner, and learn the seven hidden barriers to finding love now.


Finding your love today is tricky.  

Locating him is hard enough… but add to that the impossible stories and fantastically disempowering myths we women have to combat every day — it’s surprising anyone finds love at all.  

And dating these days seems kind of terrifying, right?

Trying to do it all on your own is not good, ladies.  The blocks in front of you are keeping you from finding your guy.

You know love doesn’t happen by chance, right?

Are you crossing your fingers and hoping he just shows up?

Have you hunted high and low, leaving no stone unturned and still no match? 

Are you wondering where are all the quality men?

If doing what you’ve been doing isn’t leading you to your guy, OR if you aren’t doing anything because you don’t know where to start, trust me – you’re not alone in this.

Most single women over 30 struggle with the same obstacles to love… Learn More

Alpha Male Series

alpha male seriesWhat is an Alpha Male exactly?

When you understand what sets the alpha male apart from the pack, you have access to the BEST of him.

Learn how to get what you NEED from an alpha male.

If you’re single, learn how to ATTRACT an alpha male.


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Online Dating Profile Design

3 Plans to Choose From:

The Swipe Right App Plan $125      The Twofer $225      The Clean Slate $350

As a fellow dater, my page landed me 108 face-to-face first dates. It attracted a lot of amazing men, and finally, my love.

As a dating expert, I’ve read thousands of women’s profiles, and many are frighteningly similar, which lulls men to sleep.

Imagine what I could do for you! I can help you stand out in any crowd. And we’ll avoid some of the most common mistakes made in profile writing today.

If the writing process intimidates you, or you aren’t quite sure how to find your voice, let me help. We can create an authentic, magnetic profile that gets the right kind of attention everywhere it goes. Learn More

Ready for Love “GET IT DONE” Package

Eight Week Teleclass, $497

Do you need live interaction, and the ability to PAY attention to the instructor to learn best? Experience is a great guide, but here we take it to the next level and give you a different direction to take. You’ll find new best practices to adopt so you stop dating Mr. Wrong-Again and START seeing eligible, lovely men all around you. Pick from that pool and you’ll find your Mr. Right in no time.

In this live, eight week tele-class you will learn how to…

  • Be efficient – save your energy & spare your heart
  • Get critical information from your date quickly
  • Be a fantastic date for anyone
  • Figure out what you’re really looking for in a partner
  • Tell if he’s interested in getting to know you – or if he just wants to have sex with you
  • Know when is the right time to sleep with him for the first time
  • Have grace in uncomfortable situations like paying for dates & saying “no thank you”
  • And so much more…

This workshop will get you to the finish lin so you can find the right man for you. Isn’t it time!?

“Today I finished Ready for Love. All I can say is this class series is awesome. You have given us all the tools and information we need to be effective in dating. I feel like I’ve taken a graduate school course, it’s that good and comprehensive!” – Doris K., Rego Park, NY

“I am LOVING your Ready for Love classes! “You’re brilliant as a tele-class leader — authentic and relatable, clearly credible and knowledgable.” – Linda R., Los Angeles, CA

Learn more about what’s included in the Ready for Love Package


Serious Love: Your One-On-One Program

Personalized Sessions with Me, $897
6 Private Sessions & Profile Review

For some people, the real need can only be satiated by spending some private time together. Perhaps you’re embarrassed that it’s taking you “so long” (your words in your head, not mine) to find love? Or you’re pained by an ex who you can’t forget? Maybe dating is overwhelming, perplexing or simply strange after being out of the game so long. Coaching with me can fix it all.

I tend to keep things simple and offer 6 sessions (discounted to $897 because they are prepaid) where we explore together many of the following things:

  • How to be efficient – save your energy & spare your heart
  • How to learn about your date quickly so you don’t waste your time
  • How to have an easy, fun date with anyone
  • Figure out what you’re really looking for in a partner
  • How to tell if your date is worth your investment
  • How to have grace in uncomfortable situations like paying for dates & saying “no thank you”
  • How to say anything, handle anything, and part from dates in grace

In these six one hour sessions you’ll learn the specific pieces of my Dating by Design program that you MOST need to know, as well as coaching to meet your where you are. We will also spend time healing your heart from past experiences if you are called to do so. Sessions are by telephone and are scheduled at your convenience. A full profile review is included in the cost of this package.

A few of my happy clients have this to share…

“Wendy has a way of shedding new light and perspectives into dating that would have never occurred to me. Through her course and private coaching with her, I’ve been able to see where my blind spots are. I’m now dating a lovely man and I’ll continue to get her support and guidance through the process. I highly recommend her to anyone who is ready to stop being single and find their perfect match!” – Kim C. – Chicago, IL

I can’t believe all the stupid things I was doing that I didn’t even realize was keeping me from love! I changed a couple of things, and finally — I met Paul!” – Amy W. – Los Angeles, CA

Amy – they weren’t stupid things, they were typical things that almost all of us women do. Give yourself a break and congratulations!

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Online Dating Search Concierge Service

Initial Investment: $1,750 for set-up and execution of concierge searching service
Continued service: $997 every two weeks

*Limited to 5 Customers at a time
1 spot currently available –
NOTE: Wendy will work with your timeline and availability if you need this process to go slow.

Ever wish you could outsource your dating life? If you’re a busy professional who doesn’t have time to date online, or you’re just not finding what you’re looking for, let me be your personal online dating expert.

This service includes…

  • An in-depth interview to understand of who you are and what you’re looking for
  • Help with creating (or re-writing) your online dating profile
  • Sorting through your online profile choices based on your needs
  • Drafting emails to interesting potential matches
  • A dating progress tracking document

Be efficient. Do what you do well, and let me help you do what I do well. Let me help you by getting this off the ground for you.

“I loved this process so much! Wendy helped to re-write my profile on OKCupid and then she was off and running. She used my account and found guys she thought I might like. She always told me why she picked them for me, and she wrote an email for me to send back. I just copied and pasted it, and I got responses until I stopped dating. She picked Daniel, and now he’s picked me. We are still new, but things are going great! Fingers crossed.

It felt like I had a girlfriend helping me all the way through this. It made dating much easier.” Kelly O ~ Santa Monica, CA

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