Locating him is hard enough… but add to that the impossible stories and fantastically disempowering myths we women have to combat every day — it’s surprising anyone finds love at all.
If you think dating these days seems kind of terrifying, or if you’ve been looking and looking, and he’s nowhere to be found, you don’t have to do this all on your own. The blocks in front of you might be keeping you from finding your guy (and that’s no good!)
Become an “efficient sorter.” So that when you’re ready to date, you can dive in, know exactly what you’re looking for, find your person, and then get the hell out of the dating pool (hopefully with speed and grace).
One of the most important lessons I learned on 121 first dates is…
Date within your tribe. I made lots of rookie mistakes in dating. One was dating outside of my tribe. This has nothing to do with race. Your tribe are your people — the ones that see you and accept you as you are. You have a natural and easy affinity with them because they are like you… and you are like them.
You’ll learn how to spot your tribe.
Here’s What Else You’ll Learn…
Wasn’t shopping easier after that? You can walk into a store,see what’s trending (like that neon lime-green jacket), and think instantly and with confidence, “that’s not for me.” This toolbox = same/same. It’ll give you all you need to be able to spot the oh-yes-that’s-so-me qualities in a potential partner that you’ve been scratching your head over for far too long.
This no-nonsense, practical (and fun!) “Find Your Love” video workshop + workbook will give you answers and tools you can use immediately. I promise to be the best sister-girlfriend you’ve got in the dating world, and I’ll tell it to you straight – with love, compassion and humor. (I even sing to you — sorry about that!)
← This is me and Dave in Sonoma County, California. Adorable, right?
“I took this course to figure out what I was looking for, and I got that in spades! But I also got to see all the ways I’ve been lying to myself about how relationships are supposed to happen. Thank you, Wendy!”
– Latasha O. – Atlanta, GA
“Wendy’s sorting method is genius! I thought I was shallow, and she’d make me give up what I wanted. But I can now see my top six are my top six and it doesn’t matter what other people think. (And a few of them changed.) Do it!”
– Holly M. – Los Angeles, CA
“Thank you soooo much, Wendy! I’m swiping left on so many guys now. I’ve stopped wasting my time on as you say, not a good fit.”
– Kelly L. – Seattle, WA
You will also receive an early edition of Ask Wendy: Relationship Advice for the Bold. Wendy’s syndicated advice column comes out every Friday at 8 a.m. Pacific. You’ll receive your copy directly to your email in-box at 7 a.m.
This information is worth waaaay more than you’ll pay, but I want it to be accessible to everyone. Whether you chose the sale price or the scholarship price, you’ll get the complete series. I trust that you will pay what you can.
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