Finding Your Love

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Discover exactly what you’re looking for in a partner, and learn the seven hidden barriers to finding love now.




Finding your love today is tricky.

Locating him is hard enough… but add to that the impossible stories and fantastically disempowering myths we women have to combat every day — it’s surprising anyone finds love at all.  

And dating these days seems kind of terrifying, right?

Trying to do it all on your own is not good, ladies.  The blocks in front of you are keeping you from finding your guy.


You know love doesn’t happen by chance, right?

Are you crossing your fingers and hoping he just shows up?

Have you hunted high and low, leaving no stone unturned and still no match? 

Are you wondering where are all the quality men?

If doing what you’ve been doing isn’t leading you to your guy, OR if you aren’t doing anything because you don’t know where to start, trust me – you’re not alone in this.

Most single women over 30 struggle with the same obstacles to love…

  • Fear that what you think might be true is indeed true — you’re setting the bar too high and you’re asking for the impossible
  • Worry that you just won’t be able to tone yourself down enough because you’re “too much” to handle, too much work, or that you’re high maintenance 
  • Being Skeptical that all the good guys are already taken and what’s left are all the ones who won’t commit
  • Sadness and disappointment that the good ones aren’t picking you 
  • Confused because you’re getting mixed messages from the men you do encounter

If you’re feeling any of these emotions, you are not alone. A part of your heart wants love but you just don’t know how to make it happen.

The Solution:

Become an “efficient sorter.” So that when you’re ready to date, you can dive in, know exactly what you’re looking for, find your person, and then get the hell out of the dating pool (hopefully with speed and grace).

One of the most important lessons I learned on 121 first dates is…

Date within your tribe. I made lots of rookie mistakes in dating. One was dating outside of my tribe. This has nothing to do with race. Your tribe are your people — the ones that see you and accept you as you are.  You have a natural and easy affinity with them because they are like you… and you are like them. You’ll learn how to spot your tribe.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Sort for exactly what you’re looking for in a mate so you can act swiftly and efficiently and prevent painful attachment to the wrong guy. (Let’s avoid potential heartbreak)
  • Look for your 3 qualities for lasting love on every date so you can choose well
  • Spot 3 things that get in the way of finding love ~ every time so you can avoid these most common pitfalls that waste your time, energy and hurt your heart and spirit


Have you ever gotten your colors done?

Wasn’t shopping easier after that? You can walk into a store,see what’s trending (like that neon lime-green jacket), and think instantly and with confidence, “that’s not for me.” This toolbox = same/same. It’ll give you all you need to be able to spot the oh-yes-that’s-so-me qualities in a potential partner that you’ve been scratching your head over for far too long.

This no-nonsense, practical (and fun!) “Find Your Love” video workshop + workbook will give you answers and tools you can use immediately. I promise to be the best sister-girlfriend you’ve got in the dating world, and I’ll tell it to you straight – with love, compassion and humor. (I even sing to you — sorry about that!)

← This is me and Dave in Sonoma County, California. Adorable, right?



Finding Your Love Workbook + Video Workshop Toolbox Includes:

  • 10 videos and audio files + 8 additional audio files 
  • Finding Your Love Workbook 

…all to help you discover what you’re looking for in a partner and what prevents you from finding love now.

Who needs Finding Your Love?  

If you’re a smart, successful, single woman who’s looking for love and your own version of happily ever after, and you need just a bit of help to sort for what you’re looking for and what you need, this product is for you.


Free Gift

You will also receive an early edition of Ask Wendy: Relationship Advice for the Bold. Wendy’s syndicated advice column comes out every Friday at 8 a.m. Pacific. You’ll receive your copy directly to your email in-box at 7 a.m. 

How it Works

When you purchase this series, you will receive all 10 videos and 18 audios. They are yours to keep and you’ll be able to refer back to them whenever you need. 

Get it Now

This information is worth so much more, but I want it to be accessible to everyone. No matter which amount you choose, you’ll be get the complete series. I trust that you are honest and will support me with what you can afford. 

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