Happy in Love

A Self-Guided Video & Audio Workshop

Next class starts: Right Now.

Getting the BEST from men starts with understanding them.

Having a relationship with a man that is filled with love,
fun, ease, connection & HAPPINESS is possible. And it doesn’t even have to be hard. ~ Wendy Newman


  • Having the intimacy you crave with men
  • Being appreciated and cherished
  • Getting the support you need

In this self-guided video & audio workshop series, you’ll understand WHY guys do what they do (and why they don’t do what we want them to do).

By understanding how different men are, you’ll be able to take immediate steps that will help you get what you need most from the men in your life.

Most women deal with the same issues with men:

  • He doesn’t listen to me.
  • He doesn’t do what he says he’ll do.
  • I have to tell him what to do. Why doesn’t he just know?!?
  • And the list goes one. (You can feel free to insert your favorites. I’ve heard them all.)

Men have a very different point of view than we do. They act different, commit for different reasons and use their time, energy and resources differently than us.

Happy in Love Video-Workshop will help you…

  • Understand men in new ways that makes your life easier
  • Have more intimacy with men without all the effort it usually requires to get them to be vulnerable
  • Get more of what you need from men with a lot less struggle
  • Attract a powerful man who wants a powerful woman like you, a man who wants to make you happy
  • Choose your relationships from love instead of fear
  • Give yourself a big, fat break from the nagging drive of perfection 

Course Promises:

  • You’ll feel more confident and connected with men
  • Men will suddenly pay more attention to you
  • Single? You’ll have a competitive edge – a man-friendly woman is irresistible
  • Married or partnered? You’ll get more support from your guys and feel appreciated for all you provide
  • Work with a team of men? You’ll get more participation and respect and can further your career faster with them on your side
  • You’ll have compassion for, and see the beauty in all women – including you!
  • You’ll experience more love, happiness, and freedom in your relationships with men, women and yourself

Happy In Love Workshop Package Includes:

  • Over 4 hours of video and audio in eight sections
  • Hands-on exercises that will give you the real breakthroughs in understanding men that leave you feeling powerful and loved

This no-nonsense, practical (and fun!) 8-session “man-splaining” workshop will give you tools you can use immediately to improve all your relationships with men.

I promise to be the best sister-girlfriend you’ve got. I’ll tell it to you straight – with love, compassion, and humor. Consider me your translator to understanding men.

Would you like to know a common mistake we make when we start a relationship?

Here’s a three and a half-minute clip (a bite-sized snack) of me telling you what happens when women try to change men.  “Click here to listen.” (.mp3)

Release Date: December 23, 2018.



Here’s a Taste of What You’ll Get in Each Session:

#1 Behind the Battle of the Sexes

It all starts with instincts and triggers. You’ll discover WHY every way you have tried to get what you need or train him differently either didn’t work, backfired or left you worse off. You’ll understand why men objectify you, belittle you, blow you off, or stop trying to do things for you altogether. You’ll see why they disappear and why you get “you handle it” as a response. If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where you’re doing everything and he’s doing nothing… you can stop that cycle.

#2 What Kind of Man Have You Got?

You’ll be able to spot if a guy is unhealthy, non-committal, or just plain can’t give you what you need.

You’ll learn how to get a man to protect your time, your energy, your needs, your values and your HEART as well as, learn how to inspire him to provide back rubs, good company, and whatever else your heart desires.

#3 Friend or Foe?

You’ll find out what “the big four” troublemakers are in nearly every relationship that makes two good people become adversaries.

You get to decide if having a relationship where no one is EVER in the “dog house” is worth creating.

#4 Intimacy & Connection Up the wazoo!

In this session, you will learn how to…

  • Make it safe for him to tell you anything.
  • Ask for what you need so you’ll get it or understand why you can’t.
  • Change his behaviors without causing him hard feelings of resentment.
  • Get him off the couch (but not sound like a nag).
  • Find a good time to talk about the difficult things.
  • Keep the relationship in GREAT shape for the long haul
  • Be on each other’s side to solve problems together

#5 Praise, Power, Pleasure & Safety

Men are natural concealers, it’s maddening, yes? You’ll learn how to get the information you need to make the best CHOICES for you. You’ll gain the tools to get through to men so your feelings are heard and acknowledged.

#6 Communication is Everything! (But What Does That Really Mean?!?)

The complex nature of how men relate to their needs and ours can be at the very source of the trouble in a relationship. You’ll learn how to speak about your needs so they become HIS priority. You’ll see how to give men information so they don’t glaze over or are drowned in the details. And you’ll learn how to stop a man from solving your problems when really just want him to LISTEN. You’ll master listening in a way that will make him really open up and divulge all the juicy stuff we crave to know.

#7 Your Super Powers

Discover the superpowers you possess that cause a man to want to provide for you and make you happy.

Tapping into YOUR six unique modes of power

  • #1 Gets the guy
  • #2 Makes men motivated to do what you need
  • #3 Is what every man looks for in a wife
  • #4 Makes you the “Ride or Die” partner
  • #5. Has you be a leader of vision and inspiration for men
  • #6. Is your inner badass!

#8 Happy in Love

You’ll distinguish once and for all, the difference between being a woman with needs, wants and desires, vs a needy woman. This class will empower you, make you feel sexy, and irresistible.

You’ll become aware of the four ways we get squirrely and lose all our power. And you’ll master boundary setting.

You’ll learn the #1 most ineffective thing we try with men – and why it NEVER works.

You’ll learn to walk in your power.

Can you imagine a partnership filled with freedom, power, safety, and love?

This workshop is for you.

Release Date: December 23, 2018.



What Women Say About Happy in Love!

“I am resonating with the foundation of trust in relationships you are presenting in your course, which you call ‘best practices’, as an alternative to how we tend to control in relationships, even though we mask that control as other things.  For me, this is a new and appealing perspective and creates space and relaxation in my body. Thank you very much for that distinction between men staying in a relationship, and sex.  There is a strong undercurrent of indoctrination in our culture about women using sex to keep men in relationships.  So much old programming to undo, but off to a clear start now! ”

Patricia M., Phoenix, AZ


Why You Might Want to Learn From Me

I have been studying, interviewing and understanding men since 2002.

When I was a girl, I was heartbroken by men ~ and then as a teen, it kept happening over and over and over again. So in my early 20’s I met a lovely, incredibly easy-going guy. He was the safest man I’d ever seen. I loved him, BUT I picked him from a deep-seeded fear of strong masculinity. I was the man in the relationship. When someone had to be accountable, I called the shots and managed every aspect our life together for over a decade. One day, I realized that not only was I exhausted from doing everything myself, BUT he could NEVER give me my heart’s desire. He and I just weren’t a fit. I needed more leadership, sex and strength than he could give and I was no longer willing to live without it.

In 2002, I began my journey to heal my relationship with men. I wanted to understand men, and love them without losing myself. I dove head-first into studying partnership by learning from relationship expert, Alison Armstrong. By 2006, I was leading her workshops and for over a decade, I have led her courses as well as trained others to do so and subsequently, I created my own curriculum for women as well.

I have interviewed thousands of men on every topic you could imagine. I focused on what most matters to women, like what men think about love, commitment, relationships and fidelity as well as what it means to be a man.

And I’ve learned a lot! And I can’t wait to share it with you, so you can have the understanding and love you’ve always wanted.

Who Takes Happy in Love? 

Smart, successful, women who desire to have loving relationships with men regardless of the context. Whether it’s a romantic relationship or platonic one, you can have interactions with all men that have more ease, grace, and satisfaction.

Most participants range in age from 30’s-60’s. Must be 18.

Still thinking about it? Do you ever feel…

  • Fear/Afraid ~ that men try to control, limit or dominate you (and not in a hot or sexy way)
  • Needy ~ you don’t want to appear needy, yet you have needs and he either denies them or dismisses them
  • Heartbreak ~ they keep saying things and doing things (or not doing things) that hurt your feelings and they feel no remorse about it
  • Dismissed, Invalidated or Not Heard ~ guys don’t seem to listen to you
  • Frustration ~ nothing seems to work when it comes to changing them
  • Sadness and disappointed that he doesn’t love, care or respect you enough to be the kind of man you deserve.

If you’re feeling any of these emotions, this workshop is for you!

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Are You Ready to be Happier?

  • $147 for the Happy in Love Workshop Package

Release Date: December 23, 2018.