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If you’re looking to be ridiculously happy in love, I have the tools for you, and I’ve listed them in order to help guide you on your path.

I could tell you how to find a man. And keep a man. And even keep him in line, but happy coupling goes way beyond that. Any of us could find a guy. The finding is easy, it’s sorting for the right one and not settling along the way is another matter. I know what it takes to find the right person, and not only keep them but keep the love, happiness, and relationship in top shape. And I want you to have that too.

These seven life-changing tools are in order for your convenience. Take your first step today.


 

Stay in Love with Your Full Moon Ritual


Stay in Love with Your Full Moon Ritual

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"You can have amazing relationships with men — and it doesn't even have to be hard."
— Wendy Newman

History

After I offered the question, I saw tears streaming down her face. This delicate, 80-year-old woman was celebrating her 50th wedding anniversary that very weekend by sitting in a hotel ballroom packed with women all there to learn how to understand men and create a partnership in a new way.

It was a simple question I’d posed to the group.

I knew she’d never asked it of her husband in all the years she’d been married. It just doesn’t occur to us to ask. I knew that, in that moment, she was reconciling with decades of not knowing the answer to this vital stay-in-love question.

This moment has always stayed with me. I want every person in a relationship to have the answer to this question, and many more, for that matter.

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16 Questions to Stay in Love

What if you could ask each other a set of questions that would set you up for success before your perfectly good relationship gets derailed by awkward silences, missed opportunities, and lurking resentments?

Do you know that there is never a “good time” to bring up something unpleasant, negative, or uncomfortable?

When we have a negative experience, one way we can deal with it is to “sweep it under the rug.” But that experience or feeling isn’t gone — it’s just sitting there, hanging out with all the other ones you’ve swept under there.

Even if you want to bring it up, you get busy, or tired, or you’re afraid. It irritates you and starts to fester, which makes you think you should let it go — but you don’t really let it go. This is the beginning of a downward spiral. Nobody wants a downward spiral.

At the start of our relationship, Dave and I put our heads together and came up with sixteen questions to help make a good relationship great. We were committed to working at staying in love, and in order to make this happen, we realized that the questions would need to be asked more than once.

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We settled on monthly check-ins and established this as our Full Moon Ritual. We have been meeting at or near the full moon from the start of our relationship, and we’ve discovered a few things beyond asking the questions we’d agreed to, like:

  • Setting the stage by creating a sacred space where it’s safe to say anything is key.
  • Agree that no one is ever in trouble or misbehaving for what they share/want/desire/ask for.
  • While it’s important for you to create your own questions and eliminate ones that don’t fit for you, we recommend you keep the positive acknowledgment of each other by voicing what you love about each other right now and what you love about your relationship at that moment.

These questions are designed to do some light “housekeeping” in your relationship. Think of them like your regular, scheduled relationship oil change. Get what’s underneath the rug and sweep it out!

5 star review“These questions were a game-changer in my marriage. After just one conversation, we took an already good marriage to an entirely new place — Priceless.”
-Jenny M. – San Diego, CA

Stay in Love with Your Full Moon Ritual by asking the questions that will take your relationship to the next level.

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How to Get the Best from Men

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"You can have amazing relationships with men — and it doesn't even have to be hard."
— Wendy Newman

Imagine men…

  • Giving you what you most want, need and desire
  • Really hearing you and taking action on your requests
  • Helping and supporting so you don’t have to do everything yourself
  • Easily understood by you
  • Connecting with you, and giving you more attention, affection and adoration
  • Appreciating you for all you provide
  • Competing for you (and to be on your team) instead of competing with you at work
  • Experiencing more love and happiness with you

Can Understanding Men Really Be This Easy?

YES! You will learn proven methods that work with men based on two decades of studying men, interviewing men, doing a whole lot of field research, and dozens upon dozens upon dozens of science-experiment-style “will this work?” experiments with tons of trial and error.

You’ll learn why you get the results you’ve gotten so far, and it’s 100% predictable and consistent to how you were trained by your mother, our culture, and other women.

You’ll be able to recognize and reconcile what happened in the past, and apply what you learn about men in your life today — with little to no effort at all. (Just seeing it is most of the work.)

  • Why you haven’t always gotten what you need — and how to turn that around
  • What pushes men away
  • How to get a guy to go deep in conversation and share his feelings
  • How to speak to be heard
  • The three layers of armor men have to criticism
  • The magic word that gets him to make you and your desires a priority
  • Why guys glaze over in the middle of your story (and how you can get that to stop)
  • How to be a trusted and valued source
  • How to get a guy to open up and share his feelings
  • How to deal with competition
  • Why they try to control a conversation and fix things unnecessarily (and how to get that to stop)
  • How to recognize dangerous men from the good eggs
  • How to get men to act on requests without nagging, complaining, etc.
  • How to bring out the best in men

Learning how to speak and listen to men newly will change your life forever — that’s a promise.

You want in, right?

REGISTER NOW

 

If you’re a woman who’s committed to having a loving and empowered relationship with the men in your life, this workshop is for you.

Whatever your relationship status — single, married, coupled, partnered, divorcing, “it’s complicated” — if you want to connect in a more authentic and powerful way, this course is for you.

Most participants are women who fall anywhere from their thirties through their sixties. This workshop is only for women over eighteen years of age.

Why You Might Want to Learn From Me

I have been studying, interviewing and understanding men since 2002.

I began my journey as many women do: I was trying to figure out how to deal with men, learn what they wanted, and now to not be afraid of them, their power, and their innate need to control/dominate/suppress me.

I didn’t have that great of a relationship with men and the masculine. I dove head-first into studying partnership by learning from relationship expert, Alison Armstrong. By 2006, I was leading her workshops, and for over a decade I have led her courses as well as trained others to do so. Subsequently, I created my own curriculum for women as well.

Over the years, I have interviewed thousands of men on every topic you could imagine. I focus on what matters most to women, like what men think about love, commitment, relationships, and fidelity as well as what it means to be a man.

I’ve learned a lot! And I can’t wait to share it all with you so you can be effective with all the men in your life.

The Where, The When & The How Much

Workshop Location

A well-lit, nicely appointed, slightly boughie spot in San Francisco, California.

Workshop Hours
Saturday, January 25, 2020:  10 a.m. — 6 p.m.

Optional Group Dinner (no host) 7:00 p.m.

Purchasing this workshop means you’ve read and agree to the Terms & Conditions Page

Register by December 31, 2019 and pay $195

How to Get the Best from Men

$295

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Sex, Love & Intimacy Workshop

$475

Sex, Love & Intimacy Workshop

In this two-day in-person workshop, you’ll learn about men, sex, and you!

Imagine...

  • Getting the sex you crave
  • Not sacrificing yourself sexually – ever
  • Loving your body and knowing it is deeply loved by others
  • Feeling confident and adored in your sex life
  • Having your #MeToo experiences healed
  • Experiencing a ton of intimacy
  • Seeing other women's beauty without experiencing jealously
  • Knowing you are SAFE in the world because of your sexuality
  • Feeling beautiful

Unlike most workshops, this workshop will be intimate. Due to the size (12 women), we’ll have more space for Q & A, discussion and connection. 

Come bond with the sisterhood and get every sex question you ever had answered.

Register NOW

Our introduction to our sexuality
was confusing & W-R-O-N-G.

I bet, like me, you learned at a young age that a good girl was chaste, and being too provocative or (gasp!) sexually curious was bad. So, you set off to be a good girl. But as we hit puberty, we saw the “good girls” getting zero attention from boys. Huh…okay, so now you have to be sexy so you can get a guy’s attention, but not too sexy because that’s bad—check. Shortly after that, you learned that sexual attention is not the only kind of attention you were looking for. You also wanted to feel cherished, respected, cared for, and protected. How were you supposed to get that? Maybe by being a good girl…? Groan. What gives?

It’s time we examine our instincts (because they’re mischievous at best and untrustworthy at worst), the stories we were told (that scared us silly), and the lessons that we learned (that sometimes caused us confusion and shame) and shake it all out to find what’s true for us as grown-up women today.

And that is only the beginning.

Sex, Love & Intimacy Workshop will help you...

  • Discover your beauty, your true essence, and your sensual power
  • Recognize the stories we were told about men and about ourselves and find out if there is any truth to these tales
  • Let go of shame, blame, and embarrassment from past negative experiences
  • Release the fear that gets in the way of true intimacy
  • Talk about intimate or delicate things with your partner
  • Discover how to get what you need to be in great sexual shape
  • Deal with differing sex drives so you're not sacrificing
  • Be comfortable in your own skin and love your body right now, as it is
  • Feel safe in the world because of who men are, not in spite of it
  • Experience more love, happiness, and freedom in your relationships with men, women, and yourself

These are just some of the hot topics that we'll cover in the Sex, Love & Intimacy Workshop

You will learn...

  • How to harness your siren energy and watch your sexual and sensual energy come alive
  • The secret to being the best lover ever (and it's so easy!)
  • How to give the best blowjob in the world (if you're into that — also easy)
  • How to keep that spark alive for the long haul
  • How to identify your sexual needs and your deal-breakers
  • What men mean by their "type"
  • What men pay attention to in bed (so you can stop worrying already)
  • How men can be your protectors, not predators
  • Why even with high self-esteem, you still acquiesce in situations and have a tricky time setting boundaries
  • How to prevent the booty call (or make them happen if you'd like to)
  • Why you pick whom you date/marry/love
  • How to prevent pursuing that terrible train wreck of a guy
  • What has a man want to take vs give
  • Why men objectify women, and how you can prevent that from happening to you
  • How to tell a man anything he needs to know about you, your body, and sex
  • How to deal with the sexually transmitted infections (STIs) convo
  • What to do, and how to make deals when your sex drives are incompatible
  • How to initiate sex so it goes well for everyone
  • What drives infidelity and what you can do to help prevent it from happening to you
  • About non-monogamy (depth of this discussion depends on group interest in the topic)
  • Why porn? Gain a new perspective on porn so you're not hurt by the experience of your partner using it
  • About kink. Like really? why? You'll see.

Sexual healing starts in this class on Saturday and culminates in a fire ritual by day’s end on  Sunday.

This is a safe, no-judgment zone to talk about absolutely anything. I promise to be the best sister-girlfriend you’ve got. I’ll tell it to you straight — that means with love, compassion, and humor, and you’ll have a lot of space to participate and collaborate in the process.

You want in, right?

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Testimonials

 
 “This workshop came into my life at a time when I was re-entering the dating world after the double-whammy of being widowed plus a subsequent breast cancer diagnosis. Most of my friends thought I was crazy to date again, but at 51 I wasn’t ready to put myself up on a shelf and I knew that my husband would want me to continue living life to the fullest and be happy. This course helped me heal from the trauma I’d been through, with the added bonus of helping me clear away life-long misconceptions about my own sexuality. I am enjoying sex more than ever, and consider it to be a wonderful adventure! (I am also happily partnered now, and) due to the information in the workshop, I not only feel free to begin again with a grounded confidence I didn’t know I possessed, but I also have the tools to create a great sex life ongoingly.

 

Without a doubt, Wendy Newman is one of the most talented and innovative thought leaders that I have ever had the privilege of consulting. Her research and approach create opportunities for breakthroughs and healing that is unparalleled, and I believe most of that is due to her compassion and humor. If you’ve never taken any of her courses, don’t wait. Sign up immediately and read all her books. She’s brilliant, relatable, and I am so grateful to have been able to work with her.”

 

– Susan G. – Portland, Maine

 

“Thank you for helping to heal my past, and for presenting this difficult topic in an accessible, relatable and fun way! Sincere gratitude.”

 

– Holly S. – Scottsdale, Arizona

 

“This workshop gave me a new confidence about my body, and the courage to discuss my sexual needs with my partner without feeling embarrassed or like I’m pressuring him. I love you for that, Wendy!”

 

– Nicole S. – Vancouver, Canada

 

“This workshop gave me a new freedom around sex and men. I have been carrying around some old ideas and old hurts based on how I thought men felt and acted regarding sex. I really had the old ideas busted open and sex and men de-mystified. Especially the section on infidelity, non-monogamy, and porn. Thank you for this uncommon understanding of men, and ultimately allowing me to love and appreciate myself in a new way I never knew was possible.”

 

– Heather I. – San Mateo, California

 

Who Attends Sex, Love & Intimacy?

If you’re a woman who’s committed to having a loving and empowered relationship with your body, a kinder/gentler relationship with yourself and your sexual past, and a vibrant romantic relationship with your partner(s) then, this workshop is for you.

Whatever your relationship status — single, married, coupled, partnered, divorcing, “it’s complicated” — if you want to connect in a more authentic and delicious way to sex and intimacy, this course is for you.

Most participants in Sex, Love & Intimacy are women who fall anywhere from their thirties through their sixties. Due to the subject matter, and my frank, sometimes potty-mouth style, this workshop is only for adult women over eighteen years of age.

Why You Might Want to Learn From Me

I have been studying, interviewing and understanding men since 2002.

When I was a girl, men in my life had already broken my heart. Then as a teen, it kept happening over and over and over again. By age twelve, I’d learned that men were unsafe. They were bigger and stronger and they’d take what they wanted. 

In my early twenties I met a lovely, incredibly easy-going guy. He was the safest man I’d ever encountered. I loved him, but I picked him because of my deep-seated fear of strong masculinity. I was equating all masculine characteristics with the negative experiences I’d had with certain men in the past.

In 2002, I began my journey to heal my relationship with men and the masculine. I dove head-first into studying partnership by learning from relationship expert, Alison Armstrong. By 2006, I was leading her workshops, and for over a decade I have led her courses as well as trained others to do so. Subsequently, I created my own curriculum for women as well.

Over the years, I have interviewed thousands of men on every topic you could imagine. I focus on what matters most to women, like what men think about love, commitment, relationships, and fidelity as well as what it means to be a man.

I’ve learned a lot! And I can’t wait to share it all with you so you can enjoy the understanding, pleasure, and love you’ve always wanted.

Let's do this!

The Where, The When & The How Much

Workshop Location

A private residence located at Jackson & Davis in San Francisco’s Financial District.

Workshop Hours
Saturday, October 19, 2019:  10 a.m. — 5 p.m.
Sunday, October 20, 2019:  10 a.m. — 3 p.m.

Optional Activities
Sunday, October 20, 2019: 4:00 p.m. — Labyrinth Ritual Walk at Grace Cathedral
Sunday, October 20, 2019: 5:00 p.m. — Dim Sum Dinner + Chinese + (Veg) in Chinatown

12 participants maximum.
A wait-list will be created when this workshop is sold out.

Due to the intimate size of this workshop, this workshop is non-refundable and non-transferable. 

Sex, Love & Intimacy
$495

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Sex Matters


Sex Matters

In this eight-session live video workshop, you’ll learn about men, sex, and you!

Whether you love sex or hate sex, sex matters in a relationship. And together we can shift your relationship to sex to give you more freedom, fun, and fondness for the whole experience.

Imagine...

  • Having your #MeToo experiences healed
  • Getting the sex you crave
  • Gaining the ability to not sacrifice yourself sexually
  • Loving your body and knowing it is deeply loved by others
  • Experiencing enough intimacy
  • Seeing other women's beauty without experiencing jealously
  • Feeling confident & powerful in your sex life
In this eight-session live video workshop series, you’ll learn about men, you and sex!

Our introduction into the world of sex 
was confusing & W-R-O-N-G.

I bet, like me, you learned at a young age that a good girl was chaste, and being too provocative or (gasp!) sexually curious was bad. So, you set off to be a good girl. But as we hit puberty, we saw the “good girls” getting zero attention from boys. Huh…okay, so now you have to be sexy so you can get a guy’s attention, but not too sexy because that’s bad—check. Shortly after that, you learned that sexual attention is not the only kind of attention you were looking for. You also wanted to feel cherished, respected, cared for, and protected. How were you supposed to get that? Maybe by being a good girl…? Groan. What gives?

It’s time we examine our instincts (because they’re mischievous at best and untrustworthy at worst), the stories we were told (that scared us silly), and the lessons that we learned (that sometimes caused us confusion and shame) and shake it all out to find what’s true for us as grown-up women today.

And that is only the beginning

Sex Matters Video-Workshop will help you…

  • • Discover your beauty, your true essence, and your sensual power
  • • Recognize the stories we were told about men and about ourselves and find out if there is any truth to these tales
  • • Let go of shame, blame, and embarrassment from past negative experiences
  • • Release the fear that gets in the way of true intimacy
  • Talk about intimate or delicate things with your partner
  • Discover how to get what you need to be in great sexual shape
  • Deal with differing sex drives so you’re not sacrificing
  • Be comfortable in your own skin and love your body right now, as it is
  • • Feel safe in the world because of who men are, not in spite of it
  • Experience more lovehappiness, and freedom in your relationships with men, women, and yourself
  •  
  • These are just a few of the hot topics that we’ll cover in the Sex Matters workshop

  • You will learn… 
  • • How to harness your siren energy and watch your sexual and sensual energy come alive
  • • The secret to being the best lover ever (and it’s so easy!)
  • • How to give the best blowjob in the world (if you’re into that — also easy)
  • • How to keep that spark alive for the long haul
  • • How to identify your sexual needs and your deal-breakers
  • • What men mean by their “type”
  • • What men pay attention to in bed (so you can stop worrying already)
  • • How men can be your protectors, not predators
  • • Why even with high self-esteem, you still acquiesce in situations and have a tricky time setting boundaries
  • • How to prevent the booty call (or make them happen if you’d like to)
  • • Why you pick whom you date/marry/love
  • • How to prevent pursuing that terrible train wreck of a guy
  • • What has a man want to take vs give
  • • Why men objectify women, and how you can prevent that from happening to you
  • • How to tell a man anything he needs to know about you, your body, and sex
  • • How to deal with the sexually transmitted infections (STIs) convo
  • • What to do, and how to make deals when your sex drives are incompatible
  • • How to initiate sex so it goes well for everyone
  • • What drives infidelity and what you can do to help prevent it from happening to you
  • • About non-monogamy (depth of this discussion depends on group interest in the topic)
  • • Why porn? Gain a new perspective on porn so you’re not hurt by the experience of your partner using it
  • • About kink. Like really? why? You’ll see.

Sex Matters Workshop Package Includes:

  • • Eight video sessions – a total of 12 hours, over 8 weeks
  • • Q & A sessions with each class to get your specific questions answered
  • • Questions may be asked live on the spot or submitted via email and kept anonymous for your comfort
  • • Downloadable audio recordings, including Q&A portions
  • • Exercises that will give you real breakthroughs that leave you feeling sexy, loved and empowered

This is a safe, no-judgment zone to talk about absolutely anything. I promise to be the best sister-girlfriend you’ve got. I’ll tell it to you straight — that means with love, compassion, and humor.

You’ll get the tools you to immediately heal your past and improve your love life.

You want in, right?

Who attends Sex Matters?

If you’re a woman who’s committed to having a loving and empowered relationship with your body, a kinder/gentler relationship with yourself and your sexual past, and a vibrant romantic relationship with your partner(s) then, this workshop is for you.

Whatever your relationship status — single, married, coupled, partnered, divorcing, “it’s complicated” — if you want to connect in a more authentic and delicious way to sex and intimacy, this course is for you.

Most participants in Sex, Love & Intimacy are women who fall anywhere from their thirties through their sixties. Due to the subject matter, and my frank, sometimes potty-mouth style, this workshop is only for adult women over eighteen years of age.

Why You Might Want to Learn From Me

I have been studying, interviewing and understanding men since 2002.

When I was a girl, men in my life had already broken my heart. Then as a teen, it kept happening over and over and over again. By age twelve, I’d learned that men were unsafe. They were bigger and stronger and they’d take what they wanted.

In my early twenties I met a lovely, incredibly easy-going guy. He was the safest man I’d ever encountered. I loved him, but I picked him because of my deep-seated fear of strong masculinity. I was equating all masculine characteristics with the negative experiences I’d had with certain men in the past.

In 2002, I began my journey to heal my relationship with men and the masculine. I dove head-first into studying partnership by learning from relationship expert, Alison Armstrong. By 2006, I was leading her workshops, and for over a decade I have led her courses as well as trained others to do so. Subsequently, I created my own curriculum for women as well.

Over the years, I have interviewed thousands of men on every topic you could imagine. I focus on what matters most to women, like what men think about love, commitment, relationships, and fidelity as well as what it means to be a man.

I’ve learned a lot! And I can’t wait to share it all with you so you can enjoy the understanding, pleasure, and love you’ve always wanted.

Purchasing this workshop means you’ve read and agree to the Terms & Conditions Page

 

Eight-Week Workshop Starts

September 5, 2019

Thursdays 5 – 6:30 p.m. Pacific

 

Sex Matters Workshop
$347

(payment plans available)

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Ready for Love | Dating Workshop


Ready for Love | Dating Workshop

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I went on 121 first dates so you don't have to.

It’s time, right?

It’s time for your love to show up already!

This workshop will help get  you there. You’ll avoid the time-wasters and other pitfalls of dating that can take a toll on your heart. 

You’ll learn how to attract the right men for you so you never have to settle again. 

Here’s What You’ll Learn…

  • Before you date, how to create a juicy, happy life
  • How to heal your heart from your past experiences
  • The answer to the question, "Where can I meet him in the real world?"
  • Where to look and where you can stop looking because your love isn’t there
  • How to sort men so you never waste your precious time again
  • How to move through the first date jitters and reset your expectations.
  • To be the best first date - ever.
  • First date conversations and etiquette (including paying for dates)
  • What to pay attention to on a first date
  • When is the right time to have sex for the first time so it turns into a relationship
  • How men approach online dating and and what they see on your profile
  • The do's and the not-so-obvious don'ts in online profiles and photos
  • The "handkerchief method" and your odds of finding quality dates online and in the world will dramatically improve
  • Using your "No"
  • Why men give mixed messages or ghost
  • The truth about the newly divorced guy
  • As a smart, successful woman, you are NOT intimidating
  • How to meet your love – the guy who can handle ALL of who you are and has staying power
  • Now that you found him, how do you keep him? Set the foundation for your future.

I share some innovative tools Dave & I created for building a partnership in new and uncommon ways that demonstrate that there is no one right way to be a great partner.

Ready for Love Dating Workshop Package Includes:

  • Over 5 hours of video and audio in ten sections
  • Downloadable audio recordings
  • Hands-on exercises that will help you feel more empowered

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I’m anti-rules (there’s no one size- fits all model) but I will help you think through what makes the most sense for you when it comes to dating. What do you need? What do you most desire? Let’s go get it.

Testimonials

“Authentic and relatable, clearly credible and knowledgable.”

— Linda R. – Scottsdale, Arizona (In a committed relationship)

“Two of my favorite people just asked me to be a part of their family. Wendy, thank you for your wonderful work which was so influential in making this happen! ” 

— McKerrin K. – Los Angeles, California (Married) 

“Wendy, thank you for guiding me! I learned so much from you, and you gave me the dating help I needed to get to this man!”

— Carol R. – Toronto, Canada (Married + first child)

“What you’re working on is relevant and spot-on. Your approach makes me trust that you know what you’re talking about. It doesn’t get any better than that. I wish I could just plug my brain into yours so we would instantly be able to exchange information. Looking forward to dating now! 

— Charlene N. – San Diego, California

 Free Support

You will also receive an early edition of Ask Wendy: Relationship Advice for the Bold. Wendy’s syndicated advice column comes out every Friday at 8 a.m. Pacific. You’ll receive your copy directly to your email in-box at 7 a.m.

How it Works

When you purchase this series, you will receive all 10 audios and videos. They are yours to keep and you’ll be able to refer back to them whenever you need.

Get it Now

This information is worth so much more, but I want it to be accessible to everyone. No matter which amount you choose, you’ll be get the complete series. I trust that you are honest and will support me with what you can afford. You will get way more than you pay.

Purchasing this dating workshop means you’ve read and agree to the Terms & Conditions Page.

Ready for Love

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Happy in Love | Relationship Workshop


Happy in Love | Relationship Workshop

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Getting the best from men starts with understanding them. Having a relationship that is filled with love and HAPPINESS is possible. And it doesn’t even have to be hard.

Imagine…

  • Enjoying the intimacy you crave
  • Being appreciated and cherished
  • Getting the support you need

You don’t have to imagine anymore.

By learning about and understanding the reasons why guys really say what they say and do what they do, you’ll be able to take immediate steps to get what you need most from the men in your life.

 

 

Most women report the same issues with men:

  • He doesn’t listen to me!
  •  
  • He doesn’t do what he says he’ll do. Like, ever.
  •  
  • I have to tell him what to do – why doesn’t he just know?

Sound familiar?

Men have a very different point of view on life and love than women do. They act differently, commit for different reasons, and use their time, energy, and resources differently. Will someone just man-splain men to us, already?

You’ll Learn How To…

  • Inspire men to want to spend time with you, create with you, listen to you, commit to you, and be a better man for you
  • Make it safe for him to tell you anything
  • Experience intimacy without all the effort it usually takes to get a guy to open up to you
  • Get more of what you need from men with a lot less struggle and confusion
  • Spot “the big four” troublemakers in nearly every relationship that makes two good people become adversaries
  • Understand why men objectify you, belittle you, blow you off, stop helping or disappear
  • Change his behaviors without making him feel resentful or disrespected
  • Find a good time to talk about difficult things
  • Be on each other’s side to solve problems together
  • Give quality information about what you want, need, and what will really make you happy
  • Master boundary setting so that no one ever walks all over you again
  • Feel sexy and irresistible when you walk in your power
  • Understand men in new ways that will make your whole life (not just your love life) easier
  • Create your relationships from a place of love instead of fear
  • Keep your relationship(s) in great shape for the long haul

Happy in Love — Relationship Workshop Includes:

  • Over six hours of video and audio in ten sections
  • Hands-on exercises that will inspire real breakthroughs in understanding men that leave you feeling powerful and loved

I promise to be the best sister-girlfriend you’ve got. I’ll tell it to you straight: with love, compassion, and humor. Consider me your translator in understanding the language of men.

This series is your blueprint to creating ridiculous amounts of happiness in your partnerships, whatever that looks like for you.

Can you imagine a life filled with freedom, power, safety, and love?

This workshop is for you.

Why You Might Want to Learn From Me

I have been studying, interviewing and understanding men since 2002.

When I was a girl, I had my heart broken by men, and then as a teen, it kept happening – over and over and over again. In my early twenties, I met a lovely, incredibly easy-going guy. He was the safest man I’d ever known. I loved him, BUT I picked him from a deep-seated fear of strong masculinity. I was the “man” in the relationship. When someone had to be accountable, I called the shots. I managed every aspect our life together for over a decade. One day, I realized that not only was I exhausted from doing everything myself, but that he could NEVER give me my heart’s desire. He and I just weren’t a fit. I needed more leadership, and more sex than he could give, and I was no longer willing to live without those things.

In 2002, I began my journey to heal my relationship with men. I wanted to understand men and love them without losing myself. I dove head-first into studying partnership by learning from relationship expert, Alison Armstrong. By 2006, I was leading her workshops and for over a decade now I have led her courses as well as trained others to do so. With her blessing (and licensed material) I’ve created my own curriculum for women as well.

I have interviewed thousands of men on every topic you could imagine. I focus on what most matters to women, like what men think about love, commitment, relationships, and fidelity as well as what it means to be a man.

I’ve learned a lot! And I can’t wait to share it with you so that you can achieve the love you’ve always wanted.

Who Takes Happy in Love?

Smart, successful women who want to forge loving relationships with men, regardless of the context. Whether it’s a romantic relationship or a platonic one, it’s within your power to make the interactions with the men in your life easy, graceful, and satisfying.

Most participants range in age from their thirties to their sixties. You should probably be at least eighteen to participate because I’ll say it like it is, and I’m not always G-rated.

What Women Say About Happy in Love!

 

“This was without a doubt, life-changing. I had no idea that my marriage could be this intimate, fun and safe by applying what I learned. It’s been three months now, and our marriage is unrecognizable in the best ways possible. I can’t thank you enough, Wendy.”

– Audrey H. – San Francisco, California

“Fantastic, amazing, ground-breaking! My marriage will never be the same!”

– Claire G. – Sacramento, California

“Why weren’t we taught this in school??? This is right on and has already transformed my relationship with my boyfriend. It feels magical and visceral. Thank you!”

– Kim A. – Sedona, Arizona

“I am resonating with the foundation of trust in relationships you are presenting in your course, which you call ‘best practices’, as an alternative to how we tend to control in relationships, even though we mask that control as other things.  For me, this is a new and appealing perspective and creates space and relaxation in my body. Thank you very much for that distinction between men staying in a relationship, and sex.  There is a strong undercurrent of indoctrination in our culture about women using sex to keep men in relationships.  So much old programming to undo, but off to a clear start now! “

– Patricia M. – Phoenix, Arizona

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You will also receive an early edition of Ask Wendy: Relationship Advice for the Bold. Wendy’s syndicated advice column comes out every Friday at 8 a.m. Pacific. You’ll receive your copy directly to your email in-box at 7 a.m. 

 How it Works

When you purchase this series, you will receive all 10 audios and videos. They are yours to keep and you’ll be able to refer back to them whenever you need. 

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This information is worth so much more, but I want it to be accessible to everyone. No matter which amount you choose, you’ll be get the complete series. I trust that you are honest and will support me with what you can afford. You will get way more than you pay.

Purchasing this workshop means you’ve read and agree to the Terms & Conditions Page.

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Ready for Love | Dating Workshop


I went on 121 first dates so you don’t have to.


The Ready For Love program will help save your time, heart, and energy by bypassing the pitfalls of dating the wrong men. Through my signature “Dating Freedom Technique”, you will develop steadfast staying power, cultivate hope, and stand resolved to never settle again. And YOU will be in control of and have full access to the exact right men who light you up and are you true match… NO COMPROMISE!

Here is the best of the best, step-by-step wisdom gathered from my 121 first dates:

  • Easily navigate the online dating landscape so you never waste your precious time wading through a parade of unsuitable men
  • Knowing how to powerfully move beyond baffling experiences like “ghosting” and totally conflicting messaging
  • Setting boundaries right from the start and saying “no thank you” confidently with grace
  • Boldly showing up as YOU…(the real, authentic you) on your dates
  • Meeting your love — the guy who can handle ALL of who you are and has staying power

Because you are a busy on the go woman who likes doing things on her terms, this powerful video & audio master class series is 100% SELF-guided and accessible 24 hours a day.

I’m going to be direct with you, dating can be unpredictable…which is exciting, but at the same time can be disconcerting.  And when times get tough, it’s easy to shift your focus to something else that seems more productive and is totally in your control.

Listen, I get it. But I don’t want you to quit, not until you have what your heart desires. I know there are predictable dating scenarios that happen (like getting ghosted) that might seem like a one-time occurrence to you, but can knock even the most tenacious woman off course completely.

Let me help you navigate through the ever-changing sea of dating possibilities. I can help you see what’s around the next bend, guide you out of choppy waters, and I’ll help you recognize the sharks disguised as a sexy fish. Don’t navigate the dating sea alone.

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Here’s a Taste of What You’ll Get in Each Call:

#1 Before You Date, Create a Juicy, Happy Life

Creating happiness in single life is vital to your success in a relationship. We’ll explore ways you can be authentically happy, even in circumstances you may not have chosen.

You’ll come to know the importance of a dating buddy, and you’ll learn who is suited for the job and who (while a very nice person) makes a terrible dating buddy.

#2 Healing Your Heart

So many of us have heartache, and we’ve got to let go and heal ourselves before we’re ready for something new. You’ll learn a healing exercise you can take with you throughout the series and beyond.

We’ll make sure you’re ready for your next big love. Utilizing this method will naturally have you connect with the good ones and pass on the duds.

#3 “Where Is My Love?”

Online dating and bars are not for everyone! In this session, I’ll cover where to look and where you can stop looking because your love isn’t there.

Meeting face to face is harder today than ever before. Learn the real reason why, and discover workarounds that work!

#4 The First Date

You’ll gain confidence as you move through the first date jitters and reset your expectations. I will teach you how to be the best first date – ever. And I’ll cover first date conversation topics, etiquette, and situations that may feel off-limits, but aren’t.

#5 The First Date Continues

While you’re on that date, what are you paying attention to (other than is he cute)? You’ll see what else to keep your eye on, and you’ll learn what criteria and qualities he must possess to earn another date.

Get the skinny on paying for dates. Ditch the fake purse grab, and learn that graceful one-liner that honors you and your date when he pays.

#6 Let’s Talk About Sex

Ever wondered when is the right time to have sex for the first time to have it turn into a real relationship? I’ve got you! The answer is not hard and fast (no pun intended), and sometimes we misjudge our limits. I’ll talk about how to talk about all of it.

This call is a no-holds-barred conversation about sex and dating. I am sex-positive, and I offer real-world answers to sexual situations today.

#7 Online Photos & Essays: Finding Your Authentic Edge

You’ll learn how a man approaches online dating and views profiles different from a woman.

I cover the do’s and the not-so-obvious don’ts in online profiles and photos. From here, you’ll be able to construct your own stand-out profile that’s authentic and compelling.

I’ll teach you my “handkerchief method” and your odds of finding quality dates online will dramatically improve.

#8 Using Your “No”

Let’s make the hard part just a little bit easier. I’ll offer one-liners to politely and gracefully say “no”, in a variety of circumstances.

#9 Myths Busted: Tell Yourself A Different Story

We all carry misconceptions about men. They are intimidated by smart, successful women. Nonsense. I can tell you what’s really going on here. Newly Divorced Guys are emotionally unavailable. Bullshit. We’ll talk about how to spot the keepers vs the rebounds before you’re in too deep.

We’ll talk about avoiding those tornadoes of self-doubt and worry, the anxiety waiting for the next move, and how to be comfortable and confident with the pace of a healthy relationship.

#10 Building a Lasting Love

Ok, now that you’ve met him, how do you keep him? We’ll cover commitment, meeting your needs, and setting a solid foundation to start a lasting relationship.

I share some innovative tools Dave & I created for building a partnership in new and uncommon ways that demonstrate that there is no one right way to be a great partner.

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Get ready for love with everything you need, by video, or listen to downloaded audios. You don’t have to stress about taking notes— you can always hit pause and rewind.

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Ready for Love Dating Workshop Package Includes:

  • Over 5 hours of video and audio in ten sections
  • Downloadable audio recordings
  • Hands-on exercises that will help you feel more empowered
  • Inclusion in private facebook group for graduates (optional)

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I’m anti-rules (there’s no one size- fits all model) but I will help you think through what makes the most sense for you when it comes to dating. What do you need? What do you most desire? Let’s go get it.

 


 

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Sex Matters | Live Video Workshop


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Imagine…

  • Having your #MeToo experiences healed
  • Getting the sex you crave
  • Loving your body and knowing it is deeply loved by others
  • Experiencing enough intimacy
  • Feeling confident & powerful in your sex life

In this LIVE video workshop series, you’ll learn about men, you and sex!

If you’re single, you’ll be able to tell if you’re his type; and if he wants to get to know you or if he just wants to have sex with you.

If you’re coupled, you’ll learn how to keep the romance alive for the long haul.

Whether you love sex or hate sex, sex matters in a relationship. And together we can shift your relationship to sex to give you more freedom, fun, and fondness for the whole experience.

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love, sex & intimacy photoDid you know that really GREAT sex is really EASY?

 

 

 

 

I bet, like me, you learned at a young age that a good girl was chaste, and being tart-like or too provocative was bad. So, you set off to be a good girl. But as we hit puberty, we saw those really good girls got zero attention from boys. Huh, {head scratch}, okay, so now you have to be sexy so you can get a guy’s attention, but not too sexy because that’s bad ~ check. Shortly after that, you learned that sexual attention is not the only kind of attention you were looking for but you also wanted to feel cherished, cared for and protected. How do you get that? Maybe by being a good girl… {groan}.  What gives?

It’s time we examine our instincts (because they’re mischievous), the stories we were told (that scared us silly), the lessons that we learned (that sometimes caused shame) and shake it all out to find out what’s true for us as grown-up women today.

And that is only the beginning.

 

 

Sex Matters Video-Workshop will help you…

  • Discover your beauty, your true essence, and your sensual power
  • Recognize the stories we were told about men, and about ourselves and find out what is true
  • Let go of shame, blame, and embarrassment from incidents that happened in the past
  • Release the fear that gets in the way of true intimacy
  • Talk about intimate or delicate things with your partner
  • Discover and get what you need to be in great romantic and sexual shape
  • Understand chemistry and its effects on us
  • Find out why infidelity happens and the steps you can take to help prevent it 
  • Learn what to do when there are different levels of sex drives

 

  • These are just a few of the hot topics that get covered in the Sex Matters workshop

 

 

 

 

When you understand men and sex, you can feel confident and sexy in your own skin. In the Sex Matters video-workshop, I’ll show you how very different our relationship to sex is from a man’s perspective. By understanding how different men are, you’ll be able to take immediate action so you can get what you most need and desire from the men in your life. If you crave a satisfying sex life and freedom from your negative experiences in your sexual past, this workshop is for you!

Workshop Promises: 

more affection sex mattersYou will…

  • Feel more self-confident and connected with men
  • Be comfortable in your own skin & love your body right now, as it is
  • Feel safe in the world BECAUSE of who men are about your sensuality and sex
  • Experience more love, happiness, and freedom in your relationships with men, women and yourself

Sex Matters Workshop Package Includes:

  • Eight video sessions – a total of 12 hours, over 8 weeks
  • Q & A sessions with each class to get your specific questions answered
  • Questions may be asked live on the spot or submitted via email and kept anonymous for your comfort
  • Downloadable audio recordings, including Q&A portions
  • Access to private (secret) Facebook support group solely for your workshop sisters and myself to support and advise you on this learning journey
  • Exercises that will give you real breakthroughs that leave you feeling sexy, loved and empowered

This no-nonsense, practical (and fun!) 8-week workshop that will give you tools you can use immediately to heal your past and improve your love life.

I promise to be the best sister-girlfriend you’ve got. I’ll tell it to you straight – with love, compassion, and humor.

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Here’s a Taste of What You’ll Get in Each Session:

#1 Women & Sex: Is it Nature or Nurture?

It all starts with instincts and triggers. You’ll discover WHY — even as your self-esteem and worth grows, you still find yourself acquiescing in situations, and have a tricky time setting boundaries. Why you’re compelled to find a provider and protector type (even when that seems like a really bad idea). And how come it feels like we just can’t win when it comes to having sex for the first time. You’ll learn the instinctual cycles that drive you, and how to stop them dead in their tracks!

#2 Chemistry & the Design of Sex

Have you ever met someone you just had to have? Intense, right? We discover what’s behind that madness. And how we can prevent things we don’t want when we are hot for them (like booty calls). You’ll recognize why you’ve picked the men you have — and if that’s not been working for you, you’ll learn what’s been in the way of you picking better.

And when it comes to committed partnership, most of us strive to figure out how to keep that original spark alive for the long haul. You can fan those flames, and you don’t have to argue and make up to keep the heat, either. You’ll see why “opposites attract” is a terrible idea for happiness, and you’ll find out how to spot real passion instead of the rush of a crush.

#3 The Effects of Sex on Men

Learn the effects of sexual attraction on men and how to use their desire for your benefit.

Gain a profound understanding of how our bodies affect men, and what they look for and need in a woman’s physicality (and there’s so much good news for you!)

Find out why men objectify a woman, and how you can prevent that from happening to you. You’ll see what causes a man to be in “take” mode and in “give” mode.

If you’ve ever been confused about men and their “type”, we’ve got that covered.

Discover what men are paying attention to in bed so you can stop worrying and enjoy yourself.

#4 Let’s Talk About Sex

In this session, you will learn how to…

  • Tell a man anything he needs to know about you and sex
  • Ask for what you need so you’ll get it or understand why you can’t.
  • Deal with the conversations around sexually transmitted infections (STIs)
  • Talk about how your body works and how he can pleasure you
  • Find a good time to talk about the difficult things
  • Keep the relationship in GREAT shape for the long haul
  • Be on each other’s side to solve problems together

#5 From Troubles In Bed to Best. Lover. Ever!

Master how to handle the grand failure of a performance: what to do, and how to handle erectile dysfunction when it happens to you (and it will happen with you — at some point.)

Learn what to do, and how to make deals when your sex drives are incompatible. Including how to inspire more sex if you’re the one who wants more sex than he does.

A quick anatomy lesson will help you discover more pleasure for both of you in bed. And can get you out of a sexual slump.

Grasp the importance of blowjobs and how to give great head (if you’re into that).

Find out how to initiate sex so it goes well for everyone.

Discover the secret to being the best lover ever (and it’s so easy!)

#6 Making Sense of Infidelity, Non-Monogamy & Porn

We dive deep into infidelity, non-monogamy, and pornography so you get the real story of what’s going on, and you can make powerful choices. Learn what drives infidelity and what you can do to help prevent it from happening to you. Understand that not all men need non-monogamy, but some men do. Learn how you can tell which one you’ve got on your hands.

Pornography can be upsetting for some women. Gain a new perspective on porn so you’re not so hurt by the experience of your partner using it.

#7 Where’s Your Line? & Sexual Healing

Discover your sexual needs, your dealbreakers, and the world of kink. Even if you aren’t interested in exploring kink, you can at least understand what it’s all about for those who do.

Sexual healing of your history starts in this class and continues into class #8.

#8 Your Sexual Power & Bringing Out the Best in Men

Observe men as providers and protectors, not as preditors. You’ll be able to see the grace in men, and how to interact with them to get the best out of them.

Explore and play with your energy to bring out different aspects of men. Instead of getting the “taker” aspect of a man’s sexuality, discover how to get something else.

Harness your feminine, sexual energy, and power, and see the real reason men know they are the beggars and we are the choosers.

You want in, right?

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Why You Might Want to Learn From Me

I have been studying, interviewing and understanding men since 2002.

When I was a girl, I was heartbroken by men ~ and then as a teen, it kept happening over and over and over again. By 12, I learned that men were unsafe. They were bigger and stronger and they’d take what they wanted. And sometimes it was just easier to give in to get out of a room.

In my early 20’s I met a lovely, incredibly easy-going guy. He was the safest man I’d ever seen. I loved him, BUT I picked him from a deep-seeded fear of strong masculinity. I was the man in the relationship. A decade later, I learned an important lesson: Testosterone is what drives the pursuer in a sexual relationship.

In 2002, I began my journey to heal my relationship with men and the masculine. I dove head-first into studying partnership by learning from relationship expert, Alison Armstrong. By 2006, I was leading her workshops and for over a decade, I have led her courses as well as trained others to do so and subsequently, I created my own curriculum for women as well.

I have interviewed thousands of men on every topic you could imagine. I focused on what most matters to women, like what men think about love, commitment, relationships, and fidelity as well as what it means to be a man.

And I’ve learned a lot! And I can’t wait to share it with you, so you can have the understanding and love you’ve always wanted.

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Who attends Sex Matters?  If you’re a woman who’s committed to having a loving and empowered relationship to your body, a kinder/gentler relationship with yourself, with your sexual past and a juicy romantic relationship with your partner(s) then, this workshop is for you.

Whatever your relationship status is, whether it is single, married, coupled, partnered, divorcing, “it’s complicated,” if you want to connect in a more authentic and luscious way, this course is for you.

Most participants in Sex Matters are women who are anywhere from their 30s through their 60’s. Due to the subject matter, and my frank, sometimes potty-mouth, this workshop is only for adult women over 18 years of age.

Let’s do this!

Special offer: Buy this series and get 30-Day “Get My Mojo (Back)” Challenge for FREE.

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$186 per month ~ 2 payments plan

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30 Days to Understanding Men

Daily Email 5-Minute Challenge, $9

30 Days to Understanding Men

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Invest 5 minutes a day, have a willingness to get to know the men in your life, and I promise you, you will change your relationship with all men forever.

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Have you ever wondered, ‘yeah, but what do mean really think?’

Invest 5 minutes a day, have a willingness to get to know the men in your life, and I promise you, you will change your relationship with all men forever.

Each day you’ll receive an email from me. In it is your daily question to ask a man in your life (bonus points if you ask more than one man).

Because men vary, you can’t predict how long it could take him to answer your question. If you don’t have a lot of time, simply ask it as a “quick question”. If you have more than five minutes to spare, you can listen until he says, “that’s all I have to say about that.”

Question: When is the last time you heard that from a man?

Each answer will give you greater depth and understanding to men and their motivations. Your conversations will be enlightening, and your opinion of men will get an upgrade.

Learn how to live and work with men more effectively, and have a lot more fun, help and love in your life.

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“This was without a doubt, life-changing. I had no idea that my marriage could be this intimate, fun and safe by applying what I learned. It’s been three months now, and our marriage is unrecognizable in the best ways possible. I can’t thank you enough, Wendy.”

Audrey H. – San Francisco, California

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“Why weren’t we taught this in school??? This is right on and has already transformed my relationship with my boyfriend. It feels magical and visceral. Thank you!”

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“Thank you, Wendy, for your generous insight and compassionate understanding of men. I joined your workshop with my mother. We are desperately trying to break eight generations of bad relationship dynamics with the men in our family. I’m sure that we are on a different path and look forward to a bright future being happy and healthy in our relationships with all men in our lives. All my love.” Hailey B. – Seattle, Washington

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Invest 5 minutes a day, and you can change your relationship forever.

Each day you’ll receive an email from me. In it is your daily challenge. It might be a thought, meditation or a question to ponder and journal. Each challenge takes no more than five minutes each day. You can do that, right?

Each little shift will make all the difference.

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