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How Did I Blow My First Date?

August 30, 2016

It seems like I’m screwing up dating lately. When I first meet the guy, he likes me but by the end of the date, he’s out. Some of them say, “It’s not you, it’s me” but I’m guessing it’s me. Could you give me advice on what to say (or not say) on a first date to make them want another one? ~ Blowing it


Long Distance Dilemma

Dear Wendy:

About six months ago, I met a man on the Internet that I really like. He likes me too, and I’m 100% sure I’d tell him I love him if it weren’t for a little problem – he’s in a relationship. I don’t think their relationship will last. They have been together for six months and have broken up and gotten back together two times. Should I tell him I love him? I have no idea what to do.

It’s a long distance dilemma.


Should I Leave My Boyfriend for Money?

Dear Wendy:

The guy I’m dating is fantastic. I feel like this is one of the most partnership-based relationships I’ve ever had. He’s calm and encourages me to express myself, and I feel a tremendous amount of growth with him.

So what’s the problem? He’s in the entertainment industry and he’s broke, but very talented. He’s also younger than me and is not likely to have the things a man needs in order to be ready for marriage any time soon. But we want to be together. It’s tough because I also want marriage with a man who is financially stable.

Vacillating in Vancouver


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